See, when mind is  confused we got stuck in our own thinking. When there is no confusion then there will be no problem.

Like if you have two paths and you have definitely know which path you have to go because you know that path which I have chosen is going to my destination (Goal), then there will be no confusion.

But In your case, you don't know which path should I go weather this path or that path because your destination or (Goal) is not clear.

So at that time Positivity is not a solution, definitely you should be positive but not only positive. Clarity should be there. 

For example: If you are married and your husband is smoking and leaving smoke in front of you and you are thinking that I am positive, everything is good, my mind is positive etc.

So basically I want to say that in life whatever the situation is. Only be positive or being negativity is not a solution. Only to understand the life is the solution.  

Do we Really understand what is it that I want from my life?

We can understand it from here:

Let Just First discuss between difference between Passion and Profession. These are the root of life of our confusion.

Passion and Profession are two different things. In some cases for someone or one in a million these two things passion and profession are same  for them. Their Passion become Profession. Seeing that people we (normal people) are very excited.

For Example: See that person started his  playing in a “Gully” and now see where He is playing “For India”. 

So that thing comes in our mind that he can achieve this So why can I ? 

See If you have passion of singing or dancing and you want that from singing or dancing I will go on a T.V. So your passion is not singing or dancing. Your Passion is “Fame”. 

So at first you should define yourself what is your Passion?

If your passion is Singing and Your Profession is you are doing job. Then do your job.

If your passion is actually singing then If you are alone in some temple or in your terrace and you are singing, you are feeling good. For Passion you don't need any approval from somebody.

Getting my Point.

If you are really passionate about something so do it in a that way that when you are doing, your Doing is what's Become your Outcome. It does not have any end or you are not postponing that this passion which I am doing gives me income or profit around 10 to 12 months. If this is your thinking then you  are living in a “Illusion”.

The root cause of this Confusion is that we never understand what the “Life” is.

For Example: 

1. One is to understand the car and then drive it again.

2. Other one is driving without understanding.

There is some difference between the two. We will drive the car without understanding what is new clutch, what is brake, we are just driving the car. And then come and ask  how we have to be positive. Yes the car is stalling  and the new one is stalling from all sides. It's bad but how do we stay positive.

So Once again Positivity is not a Solution. Learning and Understanding what the Life is The permanent answer.

Are you Really Understanding Life Deeply?

If you make this the purpose of your life, then now you get a direction in life.

Otherwise, in this survival race itself, we will remain entangled, till death, the whole life will pass, what have we done nothing. Just lived crying, died crying.

So the purpose of life is, if we are entangled from all sides, look at it like a game, whatever the possibilities are of this game, whatever the extent is, whatever can be done, whatever is worth doing, everything has to be done, nothing has to be left. If this should be our purpose, then see there is an energy in life.

Now you will say that we have the responsibility, the problems are all rubbish, so is it not all part of this game?

Suppose Relationship between two people is that an important part of life or that is not an important part of life?  Live alone die alone is that what Life is? It is just like getting up and put the car in the parking lot and saying wow my car is very nice.

Get out yourself or put out yourself is the purpose of Life.

So Relationship is important in life. If we don't go into the relationship, we start getting scared of the relationship itself, then are we not afraid of life?

So don't get into relationship is not what the Life is.

Remember when you first learned to drive that two wheeler or when you learned to drive a car, what was that feeling?

For me It's an awesome feeling. If you want to tell what was your feeling you can comment on comment box.

So what is the meaning of life, sitting back and give control of your life to someone else, whether it is your parents, whether it is your guru, husband or wife, just sitting back and telling them that  What are you doing, where are you going, what you are doing will not happen, you do not have wisdom, then such a point comes in life that after leaving the car, the car keeps moving. Can't stop, because there is no brake in life, then he also leaves the car and comes back and starts fighting  with those who keep taunting him.  Fighting like this ends the whole life.

And then go ahead and tell your son and daughter that son/daughter drive the car properly, such is the life of people. 

Now you what the point is if you are understanding then the foremost thing is Don't leave the starring because break is not there (in life). Master this starring, understand deeply about this car.(Life of car)

So it is not a solution that do not go into any relationship, go into the relationship and then  the highest possibility of that relationship. What is the Highest Possibility of any relationship? Living with your partner under compulsion or helplessness. No.

What is that the Highest possibility of any Relationship?

The answer Is “LOVE”.

Relationship If understood is Love and if it is not understood it is a Problem, Compulsion etc.

Now, if you will see carefully We have tried to understand what the Life is ?

So, Whatever the possibilities are in life, of this mind, of this body, of relationships, whatever it may be, to whatever extent. Everyone has to explore in life, do not hold back from leaving the one you have explored.

Suppose you have achieved money then don't stuck on that money through out your whole life. Money or Cash is non- living thing. It is not Life. It is used for life.

As soon as you understand that I need money for my survival, as much as I need for food and drink, I have as much as I need for home, but I have more than that. So go ahead with that. Well what else could happen in Life. 

Because you are not passionate for a non - living thing in life.

You are Passionate for Life.

Thank you.