Finding happy and satisfied people around is hard.
Two parts of happiness are there-
- Inner happiness
- Outer happiness
Outer happiness is the one when we say - I'm not happy but i pretend to be happy and fine all day because I don't want to show anyone that I am weak.
Now,
The inner one, the deep one. that is connected to your soul. Making yourself happy and satisfied is the priority.
When your soul will be happy, calm and satisfied that will reflect you or will be reflected upon your face. The more cherished you are, the more you will be filled and will start feeling beautiful. You will yourself see the change- your eyes shinning, face lighting, much healthier and motivated too. The inner self will be completed when you satisfy your soul.
This need to be the key of your life- things which makes your soul full will give you a reason to live.
You are the priority of your life and not others. Either you meet a person or spend time alone. By your behavior regarding yourself, you can force your life to favor you every time. We do can change our own destiny. The less we care the more happy we will be.
It is you who will grow. You have to grow for your own self. It's a bit of hard work but you will see it is worth it. The glow on your face, the smile on your face will be mesmerizing. Then you will see and know that every effort was worth it. Your friends, relatives even your parents will see you the way they never have and that proud feeling will be every thing. Then your complete inner self is out. Now you know that you are worth every effort if someone else will do on you. You will not be disappointed of who you are.
The inner happiness is a real, it is like a mirror it reflects back but the outer or per say fake happiness justifies the word fake because it do not lasts long and it's temporary. May be that glow you have because of outer happiness and will vanish by the end of the day. At the end of the day, when you will look in the mirror you might feel ashamed, embarrassed of yourself and still if you don't put efforts then you need to wake up.
Observe, learn and teach yourself. Pick out the best things from the world for yourself.
THANK YOU!