Hey everyone. I really hope you all are safe and doing great in life. We often wait for good things to happen to us, but it doesn't work this way.
Someone said, “you know wait and wait a little while, good things take time.” And all my life I believed that what it meant was that I needed to keep working on this one thing, and that may be in time it would finally become good; it would mould itself and turn into something beautiful. So I worked hard each day, and yet somehow I keep pushing them away. No matter how much I tried, they were always unsatisfied.
And then, I remember this like it was yesterday, one of them came up and actually said, “if you think about it, you know if it's happening so often and with so many people, them leaving, then may be the problem is not with them but with you.” And guess what, I believed it.
I believe it for so long, may be it was me who was at fault that no matter how much of me I give up, if it wasn't enough, it was because I was not putting in the required efforts.
And then I grew smaller each day because of all the parts of me that I would simply give away, because I was too young to realise that may be the meaning of “good things take time” was not that needed to keep working and waiting, but that it was not my right moment. It was a downward spiral, and I tortured myself believing that I was ruining my every good thing.
But now I see, it was as it was meant to be. The left, taking away huge chunks of me, and yet somehow, I never forget how to breathe. All because my real good thing had not even arrived, and when it came along, it was like I had not even been living, all this time.
And in and instant I knew, what they had meant, good things don't take time instead they just take time to come to you. They come at the right moment. So don't wait for good things to happen because it will itself happen at the right time.
Hope you all get it right. Thank you for patience reading. See you in the next blog, till then bye!
Have a good day ahead.