How do you become happy? Or let’s start now that maybe the word happy is a little misleading. The pursuit of happiness when it often makes people unhappy. Even if happiness were to be achieved at some point, then after the spill of that happiness, there remains the same old pursuit of happiness.

So one could talk here more about how you will be satisfied. Satisfaction, of course, feels like happiness in the body, so these two concepts go hand in hand.

I had a wonderful year in 2021. Indescribably perfect. Of course, this type of happiness year is also lucky. If something really bad happens in life, it’s pretty hard to feel lucky. However, I believe that my own changed attitude towards life, too, has contributed to the fact that I am now super satisfied and happy.

So what are those things that have made me happy and happy? I’ll be happy to tell them if anyone else could get some good ones from these and maybe 2022 would be his year of happiness.

1.Stop striving for happiness

This is the most important of the points. The pursuit of happiness often makes a person unhappy. If you’ve been pursuing something specific to your dream fanatically for 20 years, the journey there can be rocky and heavy. Many times we humans think that if we just got a partner, if we just got a degree, if we just got money, if we just got a slimmer body, then we would be happy. Although in reality a person can be very happy, even if he does not get everything he wants.

2.Don’t compare yourself to others

Now, in the Finnish era, comparing oneself to others in particular is quite insane. Some is full of a smoothed picture of people and people’s lives, you really don’t know what’s all behind that play. Beautiful pictures from home, can precede an angry mother screaming at children who are constantly messing up the living room. Perfect posing on sunny beaches, can be preceded by many hours of layout and a wasted moment with loved ones. Long post-processing and enhancement of the image, before its publication. Be what you are, you don’t have to be like the others.

3.Don't sacrifice
 

It can be easy to throw yourself away as a victim, but in reality you are only making frost on yourself. Be an actor, and not a victim, then you will be much better. Don’t blame others for it if things don’t go the way you want. Focus on yourself and what you do. It is, of course, possible that sometimes you will experience injustice and sorrow that you don’t think you should experience, but in the end, no one has said that the world would be fair. We all have our own burdens to carry, no one’s life has been easy to dance from start to finish. You can influence how you endure adversity and how you get on your feet after it.
 

4.Appreciate difference and similarity
 

We all people are different and that’s just a good thing. It is, of course, fun to sometimes compare ourselves to the world around us. It’s nice when we mothers have things in common, car enthusiasts have things in common, seniors have things in common, and boys have things in common, but still everyone is an individual. When one appreciates an individual’s difference, one does not feel the need to necessarily belong to the masses themselves, but can boldly be one of a kind. On the other hand, also rejoice if you belong to different communities in some things. They give you a kind of strength and support for your life.
 

5.Invented a lost dream to replace the new one

It’s good to have dreams, but you shouldn’t build your luck on them. Come up with spare dreams for your dreams, and if one of your big goals doesn’t come true, then instead of leaving it to chew on for the rest of your life, think of a new goal instead. We all come up with things in life that don’t come true. With just about everyone, you certainly aren’t the only one. The skill lies in getting motivated for the next thing. And forget the previous worry.