"You have a family to feed, Not a community to impress." this is self-sufficient to imply what does it mean. the point of this blog is that many times even we are well aware of the fact but then also at some point we tend to skip this fact because we think this “well-known fact” is kind of stopping us from doing what we want to, but little we know is that that fact is pushing us to work hard and bring the change in our lives permanently and not the temporary which is what most of us is doing right now. We are moving towards the temporary goal, we live in a society where if you live with your parents they will blame you for being dependent on them and if you want to be financially independent and try to move out they will blame you with a tag "he left his parents alone at this age" so whatever you the society will find one or the other way to pin you down by commenting on what you are doing.
Just take a wooden board and try to hammer a nail on that, the nail will be easily pushed in, but when you will pull out that nail the whole will be there only waiting for another nail and the second nail will more conveniently be pushed in, and that's your confidence the wooden board and the nail is the comment that society will give you at every single step and you are the only one who can stop that hammer from putting a dent in your confidence. This society will remain the same even your actions will remain the same its just about your status if you have to build a strong financial status even wrongs of you will become right they will be only one to applause for that and be like "oh!!! nice, this is so cool!! blah blah blah blah"
Whilst you are busy fighting outside your home for your confidence while there are your family members who are always ready to boost you up at any step of your life you just have to turn towards them and not against them. sometimes it may be possible that their actions are wrong but they will never have the wrong intention because your family members are the only ones who praised you even when no one else was concerned even seeing you. your elders might not show you affection but deep down they always pray for the best for you.
As I said earlier said you have a family to feed not the community to impress, build your family and you are one of the most blessed people on the face of the earth because “log to kahenge logo ka Kam hai kehena”
As I have said in my first blog I have a page named speakyourheartout.98 where you can come and talk to me about anything that is bothering you. I'm here to listen to you because sometimes all we need is someone to listen. This is completely safe as we won't be known by any means. and if you have any doubt about that you can always try on the above link.
