Love: Is that a trap??

Young minds are keen to enjoy the space of love. Love is one of the soul emotions in a human which retains the purity of humanity. Love is not only about the relation between a girl and a boy, it can happen between any individuals irrespective of gender, caste and status. But according to certain societal norms love is not still considered to be normal concept in our society. Here arise the question; why you are considering it a bad thing for adults? You openly adore the purity of love between a mother and a son. Love is same everywhere but the problems arises in the approach of one person towards the other person. Excess of any feelings might cause problems in a relationship. It can be in the form of insecurity and ego clash etc.

When a pristine feeling of a love is lost,  we can't call it a love. When insecurities creep into love, it will become a trap. Just like Rapunzel, all individuals tries to get into outside space for freedom. Never ever anyone, other than yourself can help you to break the chain of love. There might be inner struggle for an individual who is in the trap of love. It’s not at acceptable to call trap of love but according to the certain mental struggles that one has to face in an insecurity filled relation, it is a need to call it a trap. Most of the people might have expectation about their partner but it’s not right to force the other person to follow your expectations on the basis of your love.

No one can measure your love for other person. Fulfilling physical needs doesn't make a love successful. Here I would like to mention Andrew Marvell's poem “To His Coy Mistress”, in that poem, the speaker follows the age old theme of carpe diem which means seize the day. Speaker tells his beloved not to delay their love making as he can hear the winged  chariot of time. On a philosophical aspect, even though their love is timeless, human bodies are mortals so once they have to surrender to death. But based on that we cannot force some one to follow your way of thought. So if you don’t feel your own space in any relationship, please don’t delay your decision to free yourself from that entrapment. Please feel free express your opinions.