I will be writing a series of blogs on how not to be a raged psycho. There will be some "WHY's" and a lot of "HOW's" covered.
(This blog will be more of an intro to part 2.)
What do I mean by a "raged psycho"? I mean a "drama queen/king", an "attention seeker" or a "fake celebrity", i just think that is a more catchy title.
I will start with a few WHY's.
WHY not be loudly opinionated? Why not show you're not afraid of haters? Why give such advice?

I am not planning to advice not to express opinion or not to fight battles.
I will explain WHY you should and in which case(s) you should NOT and HOW to do it, because the "How's" make a big difference.
These can be applied in real life but I will strictly talk about social media, specifically Galaxy.
The subject is Haters; Insults; Defaming; Slander.
What SOME people do when waves of hatered fall onto them: They leave the toxic App. If they do they are either weak or smart. If they left it meant they had nothing to hold on to and miss here. If they stay and keep absorbing the toxicity and fight battles with haters for months or years, they are either strong or enjoy the toxicity and drama.
Even if leaving an app is the right choice, you will come across people who love conflicts in real life. It can be collegues, university, roommates, friends, and even toxic family members. You gotta deal with it and choose a path - stooping to their level or maintaing your dignity and caring about your emotional health.
Me.
Now I am not saying I am the guru of wisdom and calmness. I am a human. Throughout life I was provoked and even stooped on level of my abusers. As i was going through experiences, I was learning. I used to be naive and easily manipulated by fake victims. At age 5 i had a best friend Karina who was constantly talking me into destroying all of my Barbies. I was cutting their heads and their body parts off. She was also telling me i should cut the curtains to pieces, to be creative. One day my grandmother made me stop hanging out with my bestie. She said she was evil. But all she was, was a lost girl who had an abusive drunk father and lived in a toxic home.
I had a lot of manipulative control freaks boyfriends and friends who wanted to use me or to argue with me and even to fight me. I was always drawn to them. I knew no better. There was a point in my life where i realised there are kind, respectful people too. People who could teach me how to stay away from negativity, how to cleanse myself from it.
I had some role models i really learned from. They were not music artists, but just random people and they affected me so much.

The moment you jump out of a stinky pond that is full of mean frogs to a cleaner river nearby with friendly fishies, will be the moment you find your peace. Peace is more important than happiness. You can never find happiness or love in chaos, but you can expect it in a maybe boring, but peaceful enviroment while you work on your goals.
Do we need peace?
Yes, if we want to grow emotionally and intellectually.
You can still exist in chaos but you will not make progress.
Are you currently getting stalked and hated by your ex bf/gf, ex bestie, or someone anonymous? Do they just not leave you alone?
How to work on your peace?
This will be answered soon.
There are 3 types of people:
1)Trashy. With attitude.
2)Classy. With personality.
3)Focused ones:
Those who are on their way changing themselves emotionally, intellectually.
There are 3 types of people:
1)Poor
2)Affluent
3)Those who are focused on their education or middle class people.
There are 3 types of people:
1)Uneducated, broke and frustrated
2)Well educated, well travelled, well spoken.
3)Those who are craving to learn and change their life.
You can be either. We don't choose where we are born, but we choose how we want to live and be, and as long as we try to make ourselves better, is what matters. And it's never too late.
We choose if we want to have attitude or a personality. If we want to be a clown with fans who clap or just have friends and enjoy life, exchanging positive energy.

I will continue in my next blog.