This isn't something said without knowing anything. It's something said which is examined deeply and very closely by me. Perhaps in the bestest way.
Honestly, before even writing this piece I'm almost in tears because explaining this isn't easy, understanding it is difficult and thinking that you know so much about it is a myth. The person who can best know this is the one who suffers.
It isn't about periods, it's much much more than that. It's more than that normal period pain one goes through, 10 times much more than that.
It not only the mood swings during this time, it's mood tsunamis all the time.
It's not how you behave that matters it's they cannot even sense themselves breath when the pain endures.
It's painful to the extend which none of us can imagine.
Hot water doesn't works, warm clothes go off to vain, even sometimes pain killers don't work.
Worst part of it, it has no cure. Neither in homeopathy nor in ayurveda nor in allopathic.
It's that dreadful.
It's not only the pain that makes them suffer, it's those mood tsunamis and many more things that make them suffer.
From gaining Soo much of weight to not being able to lose it.
From having those pimples to not being able to get rid of them.
Those dark paches... They are just so difficult to accept.
Seeing all those signs one by one as your PCOD turns into PCOS and the end result is cancer.
They are much prone to depression and there mood fluctuates like anything.
One moment they are the happiest and the other moment they don't even want to speak anything.
PCOD stands for polycystic ovarian disorder and PCOS stands for polycystic ovarian syndrome.
You have cysted ovaries and much more to that. Irregular periods immense pain and pathetic symptoms. You have difficulty in pregnancy and conceiving.
Will not go much in detail from biological point of view. Still if you wanna know feel free to ask me in the comment section.
Cause of this is still unknown but mostly it's due to excess amount of stress, unhealthy lifestyle and insomnia.
It's difficult and deadly for them as well as the family members to accept this. Most of the times it's not even given any worth. It's taken lightly and that's the biggest mistake we do. It is often taken as usual as normal period pain ( I'm not at all saying that period pain is normal but then in comparison to a girl suffering from PCOD PCOS she can find it much more easier to handle).
All they need is acceptance and love. Little more care and patience. Respect them and cooperate. There are still many of them who say quite about this.
Acceptance is needed for everything. Maybe someday u'll understand this but end up losing them forever.
I have been thinking of writing this and finally today got enough courage to write upon this.