Okay ,so this is my 2nd blog so I thought why not share about my neighbour,  my journey,  how I am feeling.As I have already told in my previous one that we have shifted to a new place and it means a brand new neighborhood. If your neighbours are good you are most probably very lucky but sometimes your neighbours are not as good as you expect them they are too good their goodness is beyond your imagination.

I have one too, well to be precise she is that good that she checks on me every now and then. What I'm cooking, what I'm eating, what I'm looking in my phone to name few. Sometimes she even tells me that this is not what you cooked if I am eating something which she did not see me cooking then I have to answer why am I eating something different. In India it's very common your neighbours will come to you everyday and they will say can I get some tea can I get some sugar can I have some milk. She is typical  neighbour there is no day when she will not ask you for anything if nothing comes into her mind she will most probably ask you to give your phone to make a call, or your shampoo ,  it's not that she cannot afford all these things it's just that she likes to poke her nose in others matter and I am very well aware of the situation. 

So one day I decided that now if she ask me anything I will be saying no to her I'll be saying I can't give you this or I will say that I don't have this and I tried it one day she came to me and she asked me some suji (semolina) I said I don't have it but she is she she went into my kitchen and open the box and said its right here. 

HOW TO IGNORE SUCH PEOPLE 

Well you can't ignore such people only you can attempt to ignore such situations . one day I was resting in my room she directly came into my room she just opened the door and there she was. She had nothing in her mind she just wanted to see what I am doing,  why my door is closed,  I was  like my mother-in-law never did this to me how dare of her.  But I couldn't say a single word , I  kept quiet. But that day onwards I locked my door or let's say I thought of locking my door whenever I am in my room but this does not help trust me. 

 TIPS TO AVOID SUCH PEOPLE 

Honestly I don't know how you can avoid them. In my case she never gets the point even if I'm avoiding she don't care . I feel sorry for myself. So I have realised instead of avoiding them surrender yourself that will be much easier when they come to you , you know what they are going to ask you , it's better you give it to them. I know I sound  weird but  it is better to avoid the tension and live stress free. Neighbours are not that bad sometimes they help you in baby sitting or shopping or taking you to hospital when you need them .