Hey all, 

Most of you have probably seen this or even experienced it somewhere or the other that in a household wherein mostly there is male dominance, there is this male ego too that comes into play whenever they feel like their prescribed thing is not being done or whatever they suggest doing is not being followed. Though this is not so new, still I recently noticed this and also that after a certain period somewhere our moms and grandmothers start being like the males in the house but their egos work only before us and by us, I mean us children of the house. I don’t know if whatever I’m saying is true or not but for some time I have started feeling so and after a certain period of observing it, today I finally decided to let it all out. Right or wrong whatever it may be but I still wanted to share everything I’m feeling with you all. 

So, I don’t know why but now this male dominance feels bearable to a certain point. Maybe because males hardly spend much of their time with us or maybe because we have grown more acceptable towards it as it has been here for years and nothing much can’t be done but the thing that still irritates me a lot is that the habits that males of our family don’t like us to have are generally adopted by them. But they are so hypocritical about it that they are okay with it only till the point, it is done by them or any other male of the house but not by any of the female members. Such is their thinking and mind set and then they want to show themselves as really modern and a believer of equality. And whenever you try and raise your voice against it or even try to clear your doubt behind this behaviour, you are always proven manner less and shameless. Why because you have spoken the truth and now it’s your mistake as you should have stayed within your limits. 

One thing I have recently realized is that everything you do will count to zero in a sec with your one mistake or if you raise any such question before your parents. I know times can be rough especially during this time it is being impossible to stay at home but try. 

Thank you.