Yeah, you heard that right, being bad and helpful is way better than being good and harmful. We daily come across so many people but we only get connected to few people. In those also only 1 or 2 people get the entrance ticket for the gate of our heart i.e, those who have same brain wavelengths, equal understanding levels, and stuff. Also, we become those very few people in someone's life. Taking that responsible position in someone's heart, what is the best thing we can do?

The best thing we can do is being “TRUTHFUL”.

• I do agree we can't be honest all the time as the truth may hurt them but remember if the truth makes them grow in life, you have do it. Go ahead and tell the truth, he/she may be disappointed or hurt or sad after knowing the truth but he/she will analyze later and try to improve in that particular category and will surely appreciate your frankness.
• If you just try to be nice and lie about the fact or hide the fact, it will not help anyone. In fact, you are harming them indirectly. He/she will never analyze his weaknesses and keep on being that fool. Being nice may save your relationship but it will not improve your relationship.
• You can ask me, "what if I was wrong regarding the fact/truth?". For a period, you may become their enemy but they will try to prove to you by doing their best, and later your relationship will grow with more understanding and maturity. If not, the relation may break but the person you love will get into a great position in life. Practically, nothing is wrong here. They will realize your sacrifice in near future.

BEING BAD AND HELPFUL IS BETTER THAN BEING GOOD AND HARMFUL.

CAUTION:

Never ever trust being who appreciates everything even though you know that you didn't do your best. I agree it's human nature to be beside people who nod their heads for everything. But remember they don't help you in any form in process of developing ourselves in life and to find the purpose of life. Choose those people in life to be beside you, who will guide you when you are completely out of your senses.

“We must be helpful rather than harmful. You have to genuinely and truly help others rather than making yourself in a safe place.”

So my dear champs, trust people who are pure inside and strive to give support to improve yourself in life. Keep smiling and spread kindness :)