Out of my 31 years of life I can coherently say; the more attractive you are to the opposite sex, the more manly you will feel resulting in a happy and successful life.

“Men should always be in a state of attracting the opposite sex, but commit and marry one woman all his life”  - Jordan B Peterson

Yes that is true my friends, Men are like cavemen (junglee) in their early 20s; they want to be free, enjoy all sorts of pleasures, always experimenting, want to be in a polygamous relationship, avoid responsibilities, Spend money like there is no tomorrow, Impractical goals, Dependent of family & friends and the list goes on. These are traits that women normally hate and avoid such men.

Even men in their 20s feel a change is required that would organize their world and take them to the right direction. 

So let me give some principles/ guidelines on how to turn from a boy to a man. These are for men in their 20s and if a person who has crossed this age maybe you can also get something out of this. I'm damn sure most of the women will agree to these principles that would attract them.

So lets start!!

Get out of your parents House

I know its hard boys, but being independent is the best thing that can happen to you, it will automatically start disciplining you, in terms of money management, time management, work ethics and more over it will keep you occupied all the time. It will make you pay your own bills resulting in freedom and responsibility at the same time. If you have pressure of family business, i would like you to give a second thought, you can still stay out and and manage your family business.

Have realistic goals and work hard towards it

Once you are out of the house make sure you have a practical goal. I am emphasizing on 'practical' because when you are young you feel that you are immortal and have all the time to achieve your goals, or you will have such gigantic goals that you will not have the bandwidth of time, effort or skill to take it forward resulting in losses and de-motivation. Start small and keep scaling it. 

What I actually mean is find yourself a job or start a business and keep working hard without mismanaging money and keep growing. Mistakes and failure happen. Learn from them and avoid them in future.

MONEY

This segment is a bit controversial. The most important part of a man's life is money and its true; like it or not. Earning money or creating wealth is quintessential part of a man's life.

Women are hypergamous in nature, i.e., they want to marry men who are higher in social status than themselves. This is one of the primary reasons what men don't understand and fall prey to gender equality and assume that his partner will fulfill the required financial needs. I'm not against women working and earning, its their choice. But men have to go out and work, earn and provide for the family. This will create balance in the house and relationships. The more weight you put on your shoulders the more respect you will earn.

 - Don't spend money on luxury items, nobody gives a damn, they will talk about it for 5 mins and forget about it.

 - Save money and invest savings, 10 years down the lane you will see that the seed money sown has grown into a tree.

 - Don't buy a new car, buy a used one in good condition - this will help you save a lot of overheads like sales commission, unwanted accessories, agency margin and many more. Buy a car only when you want a serious relationship/ Marriage.

 - Get into debt as early as possible, but only to create asset not liability (Asset is something that increases in value either short term or long term). If you want to create wealth in your life don't buy/ construct a house, rent it and once you achieve your status, build your dream house.

These principles are core part of being a man which I consider rudimentary. 

In the next part we will see the fun part like women, clothing, habits, risk and many more and also display my credibility.