Published Jun 6, 2021
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Is Ghosting A Gruesome Disease?

Published Jun 6, 2021
3 mins read
577 words

Do I mean about the ghost?

Do I mean about the negative forces?

Or am I referring to evil context ?

Yes I do! It's not about the paranormal activities or  a supernatural being I am talking about. 

Ever wondered what's more powerful than a “Lie”? Even if one has not thought about it. Asking such strange question? I presume you would not be in a status to answer one. 

The answer lies along with the word “Lie” which is “Truth”. Speaking truth may sound like a melody ringing bells into your eardrums. 

But one cannot be uttering truth all the time. People are just okay if you lie and hear u say sorry to continue with what you are. But confessing truth sometimes is a break line to a relationship.

Honesty is the best policy - Is globally acclaimed saying,  makes you believe you are on the right path. But that's  a weird reality which does not work on practical terms. 

Ask yourself, “Is it really applicable to our lives"?

Am not a brand ambassador promoting relationship advice. But I do understand the fear of ghosting from somebody's life. Be it a friend or a soulmate, it's all same. Giving an impression to your mate that you have disappeared without giving him or her a reason is a bad choice of self relieving. 

Mistake of hiding is far more supreme crime than hurting someone. You can be of a guilt that you have hurt someone and to draw conclusion that it's for the best I do not meet her till she is okay.  It's a bad choice of reconciliation. The mistake does not make you do that. It's the guilt which haunts you! Haunts you in a way that, the negative forces give birth to fears. 

A feeling that creates hell of fires inside you. You can't hide from it, nor can you stay away from it. As it makes you stay away from the person you once loved and caused a grievous injury. The injury that caused to  tear her heart tissue restraining her from crying. Because your soulmate has no clue why you are avoiding him or her. 

That act of shamelessness ambushes your thought process. Pumps down all your positivity. Makes the inner warrior to weaken your position. Never presume that you are being over shadowed by a translucent cloud. Which can protect you from the victim, you have harmed. It will chain the warrior inside you day by day, allowing him to be sentenced to imprisonment. 

It is you who can unchain him from those burden of lies. Allowing him to negotiate for you. Permitting him to convince your soulmate who is suffering from your absence. That you feel sorry for vanishing into thin air and your willing to offer help to fix the bridge to your relationship which was once broken. 

Asking sorry isn't easy I understand! Trust your warrior, allow him to speak for you. Do not worry about the consequences, for all one can do is keep trying. 

Ever heard people say “Try and try again till you win at last”. Change for a good cause, reconcile with the present. 

Stop ghosting! assuming it a remedy for your soul. Thinking you need time to fix yourself back. Telling him or her that you need personal space is acceptable than disappearing. 

I know you will find peace. Trust me you will!   

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riya.habib 6/6/21, 6:45 PM
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Great Let's join hands I just need one l
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anu.ghosh 6/6/21, 6:52 PM
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Loved it!!!
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gyanact 6/6/21, 7:03 PM
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Lets grow togather
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raswin007 6/6/21, 8:36 PM
Gd...plz do foll & read my posts to...
ramayug.candlemonk 6/7/21, 2:39 AM
hey buddy, Folow for folow back
sumitsing 6/7/21, 4:31 AM
Very nice blog 👏well written 👏👏 I Am A " LEVEL 1, SEEKER" .
tkratika 6/11/21, 3:04 PM
So true! - Say your things first and then disappear!

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