Does that question come to every woman 's heart today as to what it takes to be a woman??

We all women have a kind of perception in our mind about being that perfect woman. But what is that perfect woman? What does it take to be a perfect woman.

Many of us think that its our look our skin our physical appearance which defines us as to be a woman. Naturally to this point everybody agrees that if you do not look like a woman then how can you identify as a woman? You need to have a beautiful soft clear skin which should not be like a man . You should preferably have a long hair and look feminine. Your should have a physical appearance which is delicate and tender like a woman. You should be soft spoken. You should not fight. You cannot express your emotions and many more such points to add to the list. 

Now whenever we talk about womanhood we always try to concentrate on these points rather than the inner qualities of a woman. Most of us do not focus on the womanly qualities which every woman should be proud of and should follow. We are not interested to focus on our soul. We are not interested to give importance to our feminine way of thinking and believing things. We women these days are not focusing on our womanly mindset . We are more attracted to project ourselves and our feminity through our appearance, skin and looks. But should a woman be identified only through their looks and appearance??

Now that's the reason why many women these days are not able to express their heart out to a man. They have to pretend looking good by going to a parlor, before going for a date. They don't like to portray their personality through their originality. They want to just look good before their boyfriends or partners. 

Now I must tell one thing , that no boyfriend or partner or husband would like to  focus on your skin, looks or appearance after few days. Its your inner feminine beauty that every man seeks for. 

Even if you do not earn, a man may like your honesty, your behavoir, your attitude towards life, your confidence, your sense of humour, your inner soul. So you got to express your original self to your boyfriend or your partner. And that's what's more attractive to them, than your skin, and appearance. After few days your womanly strength to build a family, your womanly affection, your tolerance, your patience, your care for others would actually help you to carry on with your relationship with a man. 

So what most women make mistake nowadays is that they focus on their outer self rather than inner beauty. If you want to be liked by a guy, or liked by everyone you should focus on  unique qualities of a woman and those qualities are being patient, being supportive, showing care and so on. 

 So try living the life of a real woman. Theres no harm if you are taking care of your apperance to look good but please focus on the more important part of being a woman . 

Just think of your mother.. why do you like her so much? ? you will get the answer instantly. 

So be a woman at heart and live life with confidence…. ❤❤😊😊👍👍