Why women accept arrange marriage?

There are many reason why women accept arrange marriage . There re some that they always want their family members to be happy , they don’t want their parents to be hurt and they think of their respect for the family . 
But have someone taught about what happens next after she enters the family that too an old aged minded family?  
There are many things that a women should change when she enters into a new family , yes that‘s a common thing but when the family people are too old minded and she is a women of this generation , it takes some time for her to understand their culture and taught. 

Womens undergoes a thought time when she enters a new life . The old minded people always depends on a men by throwing each and every mistake on women . Then the women  of that family also wanted us to be depended on men which is not needed in this generation . 
Women who have got married in such a family face many uncomfortable situation when they make a small mistake (eg . If she orders something in online without saying it to her family members then it would be a big issue that they will say she don’t respect anyone in home and see how their parents raised her ) . But always men doesn’t change their routine when they are in such family . 
My taught against this people they lived their lives and they should leave us to live our own life. 
I don’t say that arranged marriage is a bad thing it’s also good when we get a good and understanding family .

Most of the arranged marriages have restriction in their family like , women don’t need education , higher education women don’t give respect , women don’t have to work and should only learn household works . In my life I have seen many women struggling for their education after marriage . So at last I want everyone to support a women after marriage so that she will also share your burden.

I always wanted a men to support her wife agonist her family . I also say that not every men helps his wife but there are still some who cares about her wife. When it comes to family not only women should be responsible because a family includes men , women , children and elders in the family . So not only women should be blamed for their mistakes also their family members . So I don’t want this kind of system in our next generation .