Hello there, My name is Vibhu & you are on my blog-profile where I write about my views, opinions & knowledge on various topics. Today I am presenting you a kind of discussion topic, less talked but very important for young age people like us who are undergoing a lot of hormonal or chemical changes.
So let's start the discussion, do comment your thoughts about it after reading this post.
Most of the animals including human beings are social, they live in groups & interact with each others. Living in groups or numbers has its own benefits, requirements and desires. But when it comes particularly for us, that is humans living together, living socially in groups become all more important. But Why? It is because humans during a course of time have developed a tendency of feeling safe, wanted and important when they lives in groups, big numbers & keep on interacting with each others on a regular basis. Such groups provides following support to each members :
All these things you can easily observe if you have ever seen a joint family living together or if you belong to one. Almost every member of family supports on most of the cases mentioned above. This condition has been for so long that even it was present among the very first humans. They used to be in groups for prey, protection, security & even helping each others in smaller activities. That means living in close association is one of the basic feature of animals including humans.
When we are left alone or are ignored by someone who is dear to us we subconsciously goes into a state of un-wantedness & fears lack of emotional, financial, physical support and protection related issues. No matter what & how much introvert you are you definitely need some selected people to pamper you, support you & talk to you. Being Introvert doesn't mean to be without people, it simply means being with the selected group or number of peoples.
Although living alone is quite easy for the introverts but still they faces psychological problems when they are not with their choice of peoples. But for the extroverts or the ‘heard-wanderers’ the situation of living alone and independent becomes much more challenging as they are habitual of living in groups more often. Anyway both the categories faces more or less the same following imbalances in themselves if they are ignored for longer time :
Although in case of an extrovert they quickly get over these conditions as they are frank, more vocal & always ready to mingle up with new peoples.
Actual toughness after being ignored or un-wanted starts for the introverts who want to live in their own comfort zone, less talkative, less friendly. They find it even more difficult to trust someone with the same energy & balance.
The best method to get over this situation is to talk to the person who ignored you or are doing so, try to figure out about the actual reason without getting offended. You can take the help of mutual peoples to figure out the actual reason. And if possible or if found legitimate you can change or improve that situation.
If talking doesn't improves the situation & you finally decides to move on too but can't get over it then you can practice following things on a regular basis to feel relaxed & worth about yourself :
Believe in the fact that you yourself is self sufficient & enough to live your life on your will. You do not always need people to please or pamper you. You will be nice to everyone but won't allow to overpower their absence, be it your best friend, girlfriend, boyfriend, relative, coleague or anyone else.
There are endless possibilities hidden in everything around you, explore them.
That's all for today's topic. I hope you must have found this post useful & knowledgeable.
I will see you in the next one. Till then take a good care of yourself.
Thank You.
