Love.. We have often heard,saw and listened many definitions and examples or stories about loving anyone else and giving them all of yourself.But I often wonder what it feels to love yourself before anyone else??Is it wrong to put yourself first before any of your loved ones.Some of you feels it wrong or feels right about that.As love is often considered as to care about others first and yourself later. I call myself to be the part of the people who are often called or considered as selfish by their choices or decisions in life which excludes  their family, friends or anyone they care about. 

If I am talking about myself while deciding anything about my life or my family, friends or my relationships, there is also another aspect which is myself.I consider myself as an important part in taking any decision or taking an action which can affect me also in a good or bad way both.I know it's not considered good to think about yourself also when it is about a person who is close to you or includes them about how your actions can affect them. But I don't see any harm in that.Why not care about yourself a little more then others?? I may sound selfish to someone but that's not the point.Its not about neglecting others but is about to put yourself first.

We are often said to care about yourself also from our loved ones. But what it's like to actually imply that in your life?Is it going to result in loving them less?Or you became  no more important to them because you chose yourself first? 

So many questions..right? Well I believe that none of these matters if you are true to yourself.When you know yourself better, you set your priorities straight if you change yourself a little much to care more about YOU. It's not gonna affect them if you really love or care about the other person and they should welcome the change in yourself and you also because it all starts with to make sure that you both are taking care of yourself right?? 

We live in a society that somehow criticize us to keep yourself first.I believe that thinking needs to be changed.Like we often receive the cold treatment from other people if we really thought about ourselves as much as about others and are considered as a cold-hearted person right?But why do people behave like this? This needs to be modernized as we might have lost ourselves somehow in taking care of others and when we realize maybe it's too late.

The whole point is this take care of yourself a little more about YOU being YOU.So if you ever got in a position or at stage where you are not being loved or cared as you used to be or want to be, you won't be sad as long as you don't lose yourself.

So these were my thoughts about YOURSELF.Let me know in the comments if you want to read more about this or your opinions.