Hello every one hope you all doing good and having a great day.  

    Today I am here to help you to get out from imaginary web is unintensionally make by ourself. That makes us feel like we somewhere struck in our life. Although the web and struck in life is unreal, but it would make our life really hard.  All our problems start from prioritizing others over us, saying yes for other’s goodness  and you have hard time saying no,  then this post is for you. Go on        

  This web is  spinned around you by yourself by  yeses you said for others goodness and prefering  others needs over  yours need. Since we doing this thing unconsciously ,this would make our life awful and we couldn't track what is wrong with us and make life stress. 

  To relive from this imaginary web, we have to understand what is boundary. boundary is self -discover of our feel towards every action and things we are doing. We have to understand that only we can express what we are going through and what we feel, so we have to express our needs and feel towards things. Expressing yourself will make you feel a relief and it also will make others understand what you are and what is your preference\needs.      

  If you are thinking saying no to other would hurt them and a disrespectful thing. Then hurting yourself ok. letting you down by you  itself is ok. Not at all… . . Only you are the one who knows clearly what you want  and you can only express your feels if you didn't  do that for yourself, then no one going to do it for you. Then say one thing does  saying yes  and doing things for others need will satisfy them and make them happy. No they won't satisfy. So atleast you just stand for your self and express your needs to satisfy your self. You can satisfy yourself because you only know yourself clearly, so do it for yourself. 

We can say our no politely and make a explanation for it , so they can understand your side of point. If you start saying NO, soon will be pro in it. Don't think about other point like what others going to think about you, just express your self. Eventually people around you will understand this what your . 

Sometimes since we did things for other preference, we feel like our preference is un noticed and no one cares about us. We won't be good at our work since we spend our time for others. So we become people pleaser. When we start understand boundaries and doing things within our limits and express our needs . Then we would feel so relived and will do our things better and won't expect others to care about us and would make us understand that doing what want will itself will made us feel pampered by ourselves❤.