Published Oct 16, 2021
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Equality Matters! But, Does It Exist?

Published Oct 16, 2021
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Hey viewers, thanks for jumping in here. Do like, share, and follow me for nice content. Now jumping into the topic. 

Birds: The different birds that fly in the vast sky. Small or big, male or female, all have got only one sky to fly and it’s the birds own responsibility to fly high or low, fast or slow. But the birds, whether male or female, are so sure that it has only one option i.e. to fly. 

The different people in the same vast society; rich or poor, fair or dark, short or tall, men or women all have got the same society to live in, it’s our responsibility to change and smile, or hurt and cry. We don’t have only one option like the birds, we have many options to choose and change, but make sure, whether men or women, you should bring the change. Not in people but yes in people's mentalities. 

We all have heard about feminism, what I know about feminism is equality of men and women but what I see is equality only for women. How many of you support feminism?

TBH, I’m against feminism and also against feminists. I’ll tell u why.

The ideology of feminism is different and what the feminists portray is different.

We simply blame that women are discriminated against, so tell me something, do menism exist separately? Do menists exist separately? Then who is discriminated against? When we talk about equality, it’s just the women who are making all differences in the name of feminism. 

If you doubt, let me take a common example.

If a woman is mistakenly touched by men, the educated stupid uncles with these overreacting aunties make it a big scene, hit that poor guy, and make sure his respect has vanished in the air.

If men are mistakenly touched by women, Girl: Oh I’m sorry, Boy: That’s fine. Why don’t men slap the woman? Why don’t men react just the way women react? Is it that they love getting touched by women? Not all men have the same mentalities. Why don’t they react? It’s only because men are so sure that if women make mistake or men makes mistake, it’s just the men who are going to be blamed by the society. Does this seem to be correct to the feminists? Who is discriminated against now?

 When these feminists care about women’s respect, where should men find their respect when women take it off in society for just a simple reason?

I’m not here to support men or oppose women. I just want to say that, equality is dying day by day in the name of feminism. Most of the things happen in public and when the problem is between two strangers, If a girl has a problem with that particular men behavior, she will raise her voice and when she won't have a problem she will keep quiet, it’s their choice to react, it’s their right to react, and why does society involve & make it a gender difference? Why don’t women raise their voices to say the society not to involve in their decision?  If you observe, when a problem occurs, it’s just the people beside you who will make it a mess. Let it be a man or woman, everybody has to raise their voice to people not to involve in your space. This is when we find equality. Do you need feminism for your own decisions?

 And yes no one fears for women in our society, why? What lacks in women? It’s just because they are physically weak? Then what do you call the pain during childbirth? Women experience the pain of 100’s of bones breaking at a time, do men know how this feels? The physical strength which you men have is just 1% if you compare it with a woman. If men are physically ahead, then women are physically and mentally ahead. 

 “We cannot ask a fish to climb a tree in the same way we cannot ask a man to give birth to a child” How are men and women the same? How can we have the same rights? 

Fight for the rights which women have to get, fight for the rights which men have to get. Both cannot have the same rights, but both must fight individually for their rights. This is called equality.

FIRST CHANGE YOUR MENTALITIES; TOGETHER WE WILL CHANGE THE SOCIETIES MENTALITIES.

Thank you.

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manisha_rajbhar 10/17/21, 4:32 AM
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The post was on the point !!
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yanshu 10/17/21, 6:46 AM
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Very well written
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