Fear of being judged or getting comments on your appearance is what we all face at some point in life. That’s okay to be judged, because it is what people are supposed to do. but you don’t worry, after all you are having yourself and your inner self won’t judge you.
The whole game comes in when you stigmatise yourself of these comments and stick your mindsets to what people are saying for a longer period of time. Because it’s good to listen to people sometimes but not always.
When it comes to appearance, people always tell you that looks doesn’t matter but it’s the heart of the person that is to be seen first but it’s not the case in real life. We all know people usually judges on the skin colour, complexion or how we look or how we walk or talk, but that’s okay. Don’t let people’s opinion come heavy over your head. Just listen to the people how much you are supposed to listen and how much your heart is okay to take it without pain. are the people paying your bills, are they giving you food, shelter, clothes or are they studying or struggling on your part, it’s a big no. Then why to let them decide how you should feel.
Motivation is something that needs to be alive within. These motives should be in terms of earning, future, accomplishments and what not. Never let failures become a hurdle that can stop you.
Apart from this one should keep himself motivated and should not feel that the failure is the ultimate end point. One should keep trying and enjoying each and every step of life.
Life is insane. You are supposed to enjoy it, study, counter failure, have adventure, and even face the struggles and obstacles, stood up and take it all as a part of life as we don’t know the days we are going to live but we should know ”each day is having something to cherish, be it good or bad.”
There are so many societal issues; be it the economic crisis, age differences, different sorts of exploitation, Health issues, some sort of injustice and endless human issues. One should be aware of the problems plus how to deal with it and various solutions that are possible in the realistic world, otherwise one would be stuck in the vicious circle of the societal issues. Apart from the days one should focus on being optimistic and there is no getting out of the problems and societal issues that one could face in life.
It’s all from within. You will meet good people and you’ll meet endless bad people, so just keep tour smile intact and spread positivity. LOVE- LIVE!