Relationship of nowadays can be compared with a movie where you go to watch a selected movie in theatre for 2 hours and you went their with lot of expectations like u will get to see lot of love, fights and suspense, jokes but if the movie is not up to your expectations you start defaming that movie and u feel like as if you have wasted your time and money. Same in relationship people enters with lots of expectations and enthusiasm but when they get to know their partners nature, his status they start feel as if they are missing out something in their partner. People of nowadays sits long hours watching movies, serials, Facebook, Instagram where you scroll memes on perfect relationships, girls with makeup, boys with luxury cars and what not.whatever they see in Instagram they try to imitate in their life but when they fail they get in depression even after spending money extravagantly they could not look like influencers, my friends that world is fake. The pictures of girls with sexy clothes and boys with luxury cars are made just to attract people for their brands and in reality behind these beautiful photos there are so many filters, photoshop photos which is not real at all. My dear friend I just want all of you to don't compare your relationship with a meme on Instagram. Their is nothing called perfection in this world everyone has to put efforts in relationship and how can you expect to get a perfection in your relationship. You should respect each other flaws that's the beauty of relationship. We are comparing our partners by Instagram influencers, we want our partner to look slim, have a perfect jawline, sexy figure, fair just like instagram influencers and if we don't get that we start feeling missing out and ruin our relationship due to social media.
Nowadays relationships is all about sex and having fun and when you have an argument with your partner instead of resolving you start judging them with a online quotes on relationships you read some days back . Really that quotes will decide how a relationship should be?
My dear friends all I want to say stop searching for the perfect because their is none….. Just Love the person with all their flaws and good things. Why to search anything outside your relationship when you can find and create that in your relationship. You two have put so much in relationship don't ruin it like that .. Start listening to your partner… don't point out their mistake, try to understand eachother and believe me that will make your relationship very strong. Thank you