Above Picture is of "TWO GUN"Crowley(The Killer,the gunman, notorious criminal of New York. Who was declared as one of the most dangerous criminal in the history of Newyork. Who can kill you in no time. But how did “Two Gun” crowley think of himself ?? because while he was trapped in a building during his last days ,he was surrounded by 1000 of police were firing into his apartment he wrote a letter “To whom it may concern”but as he was writing blood was flowing causing a trail on letter .In that letter crowley said “ Inside my coat there is a sad heart but a kind one .one heart that would do no harm to anyone.”

The Point of the story is Crowley never blamed himself for anything.

“I have lived the most beautiful years of my life treating people very nicely and helping everyone so that they have a good time and all i get is people treating me badly abusing me and they made my life hell”

That's the AI Capone speaking yes America most dangerous and notorious criminal Public enemy. Capone never regard himself wrong infact he used to think that he is a person who help or give money to a person or organization to flourish or helping them to survive.

If AI Capone and Two Gun Crowley didint condemn themselves wrong for anything then -What about people with whom you and i come in contact???

It is very childish to condemn anyone / Prove anyone wrong or scold them  because People never criticize themselves for anything no matter how wrong or mistakes they may be doing.

Criticism is of no use /Futile because when you criticize someone then that person puts himself in the defensive mode and he will make every move to justify himself so that he will make him right even though its is not justified/rationalize/logical because everyone think of himself as ideologist. Criticism is very very dangerous because it hurts a persons pride or image also hurts his self esteem and that will create resentment sadness into that person.

There is a experiment that if an animal is rewarded even for the minute improvement then there is more chances of his improvement other than if you scold or reprimand them and the same applies to human.

“If you want to gather honey ,Don't kick over the Beehive”