If you want to make your life full of zest then get ready to face the problems and in contrary if you want to make your life dull then stay where you are, Do nothing. I heard a story there was a small grass flower in a garden who was surviving by hiding under the roof of a rock due to this the grass flower was not affected by any thunderstorms and heavy wind flow. That grass flower was not affected by heavy rain too because that flower was already very close to land surrounded by rocks. There are was a garden full of flowers near to that grass flower. one day that grass flower started bragging to god that how long he will be grass flower and started wishing  to become like a rose flower in that garden. God tries to convince him that stay what you are and don't wish to become a rose. Don't put yourself in this situation because rose has to suffer a lot due to heavy rain and wild winds, its roots get affected and become weak and sometime it get destroyed. just look at yourself you are so safe and happy in between the rocks. Do you know that when rose is unable to grow properly because every other person pluck it before it is fully grown but you are so safe no body try to pluck as you are not visible to them. Do you know what all the petals of rose fall as soon as rain starts so i will suggest you not to involve in this struggle stay away from this then that wild flower replied i have been stayed so long under security now i want to struggle and i want to face problems like others flower so please convert me into  rose just for 24 hours if this is not possible then please convert me for atleast 1 hour then god replied dont get into this mess, just look at yourself you are so happy than wild rose replied i have not seen sun since long time i have never seen the thunder, rain, heavy winds. after listening to all this god granted his wish and converted it into rose then heavy rain started, wind started blowing and that rose demolished then other wild flower told why u did all this to yourself then it replied how long you are going to live under shield. you will learn the truth from the struggle.