you must remember one thing in life. one who speak sweetly or gently with you also has a knife in his hand. Below every bridge of appraisal there is a river of selfishness. One who always appraises you, beware of those persons. many people complain that they are not doing great in their life. they dont have time or having bad luck, have no money etc etc. All i want to say to them is that “if you use your brain in some productive work than the amount of time you spend on phone then you will do great things in life.” but foolish human beings will not learn anything from this instead they will get angry because the truth is that not everyone can digest the truth. everyone is busy improving others and they hardly introspect themselves. experiencing betrayal is also important in life becuase our parents teaches us how to walk but we have to learn balancing on our own. There is a saying that behind every bad things you will find a hidden good things also similarly sadness make us humanbeings and defeat teaches us gratitude and betrayal make us strong similarly every good thing has  hidden bad things also. Excess of wealth can give birth to bad habits. Excess love can mske you weak. Excess of happiness can make you a lazy person. so always remember never become servant of good things always use good things in limit and learn to find good things in bad situations. This is the right way to lead your life and once you learn these things then nothing can worry you and you will never get distracted. Every human beings should  struggle because to enjoy happiness you should have experienced struggle before or you will not be able to handle success. If you never accept defeat then you have one more chance, just remember if you accept defeat then it is your biggest failure. so you must not get afraid of anything all you have to do is keep on trying because the cost of doing nothing is more than cost of doing wrong things. In the end i would tell you one thing "you are born to make noise and revolution then why are you sitting in sorrow come on rise up know yourself because deep inside you have hidden tsunami. my friend remember one thing nothing in this life is impossible. just think positive and move ahead  towards your goal.