Many people find it difficult to make friends, even if they have qualifications for high-paying jobs. Socializing can be challenging, but making friends is easier with effort.

Before delving into the topic, it's essential to remain true to yourself. Don't change who you are to fit someone else's idea of a friend. Those who appreciate you for being yourself will naturally become your friends, and that bond will endure. Here, I'm going to offer some guidance for those who struggle with socializing and find it hard to engage in conversation.

The first step is to become a good listener. People always want to feel heard, and it's an easy way to make friends. Show genuine interest while they talk, avoiding interruptions or attempts to redirect the conversation. Stay attentive and ask relevant questions periodically.

The second thing is not to wait for others to start the conversation. You can simply initiate it with a friendly "hi" and a smile, which encourages others to engage. Therefore, don't hesitate to keep a smile on your face when you want to build a friendship with someone.

Thirdly, find someone who shares your interests. Having common interests makes it easier to hang out without getting bored and can deepen your friendship to the point where you feel comfortable sharing personal issues. However, it's important to exercise caution before sharing personal information with anyone.

Fourthly, appreciate the qualities you admire in the other person, even if they seem small, such as their skills in sewing, gardening, writing, drawing, dressing, and more. Don't hesitate to express your appreciation, as it makes them feel proud and fosters a lasting bond.

Fifthly, be a loyal friend. Loyalty is a crucial quality not only for friendship but for any relationship. If your friend shares secrets or needs a shoulder to cry on, be there for them. They need your time and energy during difficult times, so be there to support them.

Sixthly, strive to keep your promises. If you say you can do something, follow through with it. If you can't fulfill a commitment, communicate this early on instead of waiting until the last minute, as this can sour the relationship.

Finally, learning to say no and setting boundaries is crucial for maintaining a healthy friendship. You don't have to be a people pleaser to foster relationships. It's okay to say no and not agree to everything to maintain a friendship. If you find that a relationship is controlling you, disrupting your peace, or impacting your mental health negatively, it's important to consider ending it respectfully. Ultimately, you deserve to have good, supportive friends.