l Why bad things happen only for me?
Everyone at some point of time in their life had this thought in their mind. All others are happy but not me. Everyone are having good days, spending good time but not me.
My advice:-
Sometimes the world is really shitty, sometimes shitty matters manifest to certainly proper human beings.
yes, in case you move round being terrible, there is a superb hazard that terrible things happen to you - now no longer due to success or karma, however due to the fact that plenty of human beings likely will need to punch you. On the other end, you have given nothing but love and light to the world everyday of your existence, but also live in a war zone and stay a lifestyles complete of unattainable ache and suffering. I'm not saying this to depress you. I'm pronouncing this due to the fact that we like to believe that there these are specific things we can take to guarantee that disaster won't befall us, when the entirety of human history that has been impossible. And in case you are lucky, you may stay a terrific lifestyles and control to have proper matters manifest to you. If you aren't lucky, you study your misfortune and say βwhy have I been forsaken?β
Let me tell you something that one my gas asked me when I am feeling sad and believing that all the bad things happen only to me.
she asked me:-
Do you have telephone or phone or laptop? - I said yes
Are you educated? - I said yes
Do you have proper network connection? - I said yes
Do you have a extra or much less healthy body? - I said yes
Do you have home to live? - I said yes
Do you have minimum amount of money for basic medical need? - I said yes
Are you still alive? - I said can't you see me I'm talking to you right that means I am alive.
Then she said what else do you expect from life when you have all these comforts. Come on, you still see the mornings, work during the days and peacefully sleep at nights.
When you are having these many comforts, every necessary and important thing is with you and having so many opportunities to smile each day. Why are you not using it. Use it and stay happy. From that day I never started blaming like why everything happens only to me and started smiling each day and utilizing all the opportunities.
At the end I can say only one thing, even if you are not having what my friend has asked me. Remember your life is still better than many of the people. Many people in the world are dreaming about the lifestyle that you are having now. Start accepting the things that you are having and enjoy every moment.
Don't forget to utilize the opportunities which will improve and bring the best within you.
Thank you.