1.BE YOUR IDEAL PARTNER.
Most of us have our mental image of our ideal partner ,and so when we meet someone , we have this checklist of things whether that person meets our standards or not.
But if you really want to meet the person , non- negotiables, and whatnot , YOU need to be the person you're aspiring to be with.
Take a piece of paper.
Write down everything you want your future partner to be , but don't look for that person ;BECOME that person.
Think about it , looking for an ideal partner is fruitless if you won't attract that person when you meet him or her.
Ask yourself , if you are another person and you meet yourself ,would you go out with yourself ?
You want a partner who's in good shape , then take care of your health and be fit. You want someone smart, then read books and try to be a person who also knows alot.
WORK ON IMPROVING YOURSELF. IN time you'll find that you will draw more people to you.
2.LET GO OF YOUR PAST
So you probably have been in a toxic relationship before , and sometimes it's so easy for many of us to fall into a habit loop of reliving painful experiences.
And the problem is , as long as you are stuck with those feelings, you'll find it hard to find love.
Your brain does not differentiate between past, present , and future , so every time you think about negative emotions , your body and mind react as if the thought is real and will show in you .
It will be hard for people to have a great time being with you if your heart is filled with negativity.
The biggest problem is these negative emotions can run your life if you let them .Unhappiness , resentment , and other negative emotions can become a habit , and if left unchecked, it can become your normal . Let go of your past.
You feel negative emotions such as anger , fear , resentment ,hostility , judgment , etc.
3.TEACH YOUR BODY TO FEEL LOVED AS IF IT HAS ALREADY HAPPENED
Practice feeling loved before it happens.
As mentioned your mind cannot differentiate emotions as past ,present or future .Every emotion you feel ,regardless if its about a past event or something that you anticipate in the future ,is as real to your mind as though they are happening at present .
If you let your mind operate in a way that it “remembers” a future full of love and passion , you physical , emotional and mental faculties will respond as if its already happened.
Let yourself feel loved before it actually happens, it will radiate ,and the people surrounding you will notice it.
And because you are free of negativity to accept love from others.
Just like any endeavors you have be it financial, professional and personal - you can attract love by simply believing and living your life as if your desired future has already happened.
IT'S THE KEY TO ATTRACTION.