Hey everyone! Many of us have faced the moment when someone have left us, at least once in our lifetime. Isn't it?
Life often confuses us with its so many forms. Sometimes it bring us all the joy and in the next moment our life is full the sorrows and darkness. It's a single life to say, but it's actually a thousand life to live. People always talk about staying for love, waiting for the right moment, waiting for the right person, sticking to the right people and things like that, but behind this science of staying, waiting and sticking, there lies the art of leaving that we don't usually talk about and just ignore it. Leaving is usually considered negative as it shows inconsistency in life, but there is a different side of this story that we tend to overlook.
A decision of leaving a person, a place, a time frame or a thing behind needs so much strength and courage. More than the knowledge of words, it needs the understanding of timing and situations. We can always blame someone or even ourselves for being at the leaving end but it's not about a good or bad decision but, it's always the intention behind it. You can love someone immensely with all your heart and still make a decision to leave them because you understand what the situation needs, so is true for someone who left.
I am not talking about those who make choices without giving a thought and then blame time for everything. I am talking about those who know how precious the connections are, yet choose to shift and more often than not, time flip sides and we are in the place of those who once left and we never forgave them. If leaving someone or being left behind makes you realize your worth, trust me it's needed. No matter how tough it gets or how rough it feels, you will always move forward when you leave a place or a person behind.
Leaving might hurt for some time, but it's a much needed lesson in life. You can be right about leaving if you think what happens when you stay would be wrong. On the other hand you might be wrong if you leave, you never know but if it gives you peace, just go for it. Nothing can be predicted about the decision of leaving someone or something. Just accept it if someone has made a decision to leave you..