Today I want to tell you today some great news which I got to know.

Tapasya got hitched to IFS officer Gauravit Gangwar in Joba village of Narshinghpur of Madhya Pradesh. She did not let the ritual of kanyadaan take place at her wedding. IAS officer Tapasya said in an interview that she didn’t like this ideology of giving away daughters since childhood. How can someone donate her without her wish, she used to wonder She discussed it with her family members and they also agreed to it. She managed to persuade the groom’s side also. The marriage then took place without giving any Kanyadaan. 

Her husband IFS Garvit supported her decision and said that changing after marriage for girls makes no sense. He said that we should do away with such beliefs and rituals gradually. Tapasya’s father is also happy with the marriage.

There is, however, a section of people who are criticising the family for not taking Hindu rituals seriously. This is not the first time when a bride has brought about a change with her positive actions.

Understanding the pressing need to promote girls’ education, a Rajasthan bride reportedly requested her father before her wedding to use the money reserved for her dowry in the noble cause of constructing a girls’ hostel.

This type of steps shows that how much changes of thinking we need and to take this step we need some courage and also support of our love ones because always support of financial is not necessary mentally support even more need. 

I am very happy to see that her family and her husband understand her and not raise some weird kind of attitude and understand her thoughts and let her do what she wants which is very right and appreciable.

To have this type of thinking it shouldn't be depend on gender all things should have to be depend on the topic or on the matter whoever say something good should be acceptable and because we know that it is really difficult to take this brave steps and we just need to have  some courage to say just support them so that our New generation can also do what is right and know that if they do good so there are people who support them with full of heart and let them do what they want and make them independent about thinking something good and creative and make their parents feel proud