Isn't it true? Nothing in this world is impossible. It might be difficult, very very very difficult but never impossible. You just have to try hard. Staying happy and positive is also same. There might be situations where you'll feel down but if really tried you can come over those. Lets find out how we can do that…

Who do you think can make you happy? Should you depend on someone or something to be jolly? Is really having a person who makes you smile good? 

First of all why should one seek happiness? Is being sad that bad? Why's everyone so afraid of it? Here I'm not trying to justify the sorrow or may be I am… just wandering how this negative thing affects you positively. For this you simply have to know how much you should grieve for what thing. 

Remember when I talked about overthinking in my last blog. This is it. This is where it comes in the scenario. Whenever you are sad you think about the issue. You blame others for hurting you. There you are actually telling your mind that you want to win this quarrel to let everyone know that you were not at the fault. And if it's not happening you'll just try and  try to make that happen and now you're losing your peace of mind.

 But now I say THINK A LIL BIT MORE. You'll start blaming yourself. Let me make myself clear. Blaming self isn't a bad thing when it can give you positive results. I say blame yourself for not giving priority to yourself. Blame yourself for giving control on you to others. For me it's obviously great to have that one person who never let you fall but at least be strong enough to pull yourself out of the hole when you are totally on your own. It's better than dying there which you don't deserve. Once you stop expecting from others you don't have to justify to someone even if you were at fault. Just walk out of that scene if you want your sanity.

No one ever could guarantee you to be by your side 24*7 and no one should. Because once you make such promises the person starts expecting some things from you and even if you are not ignoring them, even if you are really busy with your stuff… the ultimate thing is gonna be YOU NOT BEING THERE FOR THEM IN THEIR TIMES OF NEED. No kidding but I'd never want even my enemy to go through such mess.

So just a small request to everybody, to both who are making promises and who are expecting those -  Don't give too much hopes to anyone even if you want to be with them because you never know what will happen. And a word of advice to the people who are in need of your person just try to understand them if they are really pre-occupied with something or not before making a negative mind about them. And if you are not that matured enough Please Walk Out!!! Don't make anybody suffer more.

It's hard but it's necessary!

#SM

Hope you all are healthy and safe. Lets meet soon with a new blog… Until then take care!!!