One of my friends once asked me what or how I see myself in the span of 10 years or whether I have a goal to work hard for or a dream job or even a point where I think “Okay so this is where  wanted to be” - my end point … Well If you had asked me this same question before a few years  ( I'm 18 now) I would have had a completely different answer… an answer that might be common to some of y'all - married (maybe with some cute toddlers running around) , a stable job of some sort, home watching a pretty sunset and drinking wine(though that doesnt sound bad) yada yada…  

But now that I take some time to think about it,  I don't really think I need to have a goal or a dream job or a place where I wanna settle down.. and guess what, I'm completely fine with that! 

Growing up I have realized that nothing ever works the way you want it to and that's on "the law of least effort" and even if it does, in the least case, there is no assurance that you will end up happy… cos I have witnessed many people madly working a 9-5 dream job they wanted and still dissatisfied..  So rather than working towards a goal I want to work on making myself happy and at peace no matter what… I'm not really sure where this road will lead me to or where I will end up being ,and to be very honest I don't really care…. according to me there is no bad path or a bad destination.. Everything that happens in your life teaches you a lesson , either good or bad.. So can we all at least break the common norm of saying “you will never get anywhere unless you know where you are going or unless you have a goal of where you wanna be one day ” ‘cos trust me when I say this.. it does NOT really matter…. Just because you want to prove some pointless points to some unimportant people that we call society (which includes you and me, unfortunately) we don’t have to force into ourselves a goal that we have no intention of keeping or achieving cos in the end, all I ever wanna be is to be proud of myself for making it that far, Alive ..