Everyone of us wants to be important but wait, are you giving equal importance to the person from whom you want to feel like a prince/princess.

The answer is NO of course.

We expect a lot from others, we always want to be cherished by others but don't do it exactly in return.

Most of us are being ignored by our families, friends, acquaintance and society. Still fighting and dealing with these issues. No, you haven't done anything wrong, just people around you wanting you to see yourself like a failure, or loser. They don't want to give any importance any sort of recognition, nothing. They make you feel like dumb, not a person with full mind. They unmatched you with themselves. You feel like an outsider or a soul to whom they can't see.

They abandoned you with a view that you are not from their category. If your thoughts are different, your aims/goals are different then they make you to feel like you are form different planet or somewhere else.

You just being left alone with your tears and immature feelings. Negatively haunts you and one day you started thinking the way they want you to think.

Anyhow you agreed with them of being a foolish.

As per my title stated- HowItFeelsToBeNotSoImportant : It definitely not feels good or something you want. Its very heart wrenching to see people ignoring you and not taking your opinion as a concern. They just made you to realise again and again that you are abnormal, not completely like us i.e., like so called normal people.

Now the thing is to deal with it- You can't do anything with those people but you definitely can do one thing to make yourself super strong that their gestures, behaviour and ambitious motive don't affect you. As we know- "Actions speaks more louder than thousand words".

Just do it right. Forget all the negative things and make a bold move to engage yourself in what you like and achieve it, this is the only way you mark yourself with a place where no one is above you. You are the only master of yourself. By the mid time you can also use these techniques to bear those hatred comments -

1. Self motivation - if people around you are full of toxic, be the real version of yourself. Keep yourself motivated and dedicated.

2. Enjoy your own company - don't try to find people to make you happy and sad. Just enjoy your own company because always remember one thing - happiness is not depend on external world, it comes from our inner state of mind.

3. Work harder - what you want, where everybody see you in next some years ? So work harder to show them your powers and capabilities.

4. Don't expect from anyone - this is the biggest failure of a person to expect from others.

At last, don't pay attention to everyone in the world saying bad about you. You are big enough to hear your inner voice and work accordingly.