There are many of us who feels that relationship is a difficult thing to manage in life. Maintaining a relationship with your husband or wife becomes the most big problem. We don't find solutions to different situations which we are subjected to when we are in a relationship. And the fact is that, it is difficult to maintain any relationship  in your life, be it with your parents, your friends, your relatives, your neighbor. But we don't leave them. We grow with them. So we need to grow with our conjugal relationships too. With time, experience and patience things can change for the best.

1. Express your true self- Always express your true self to your partner. If your partner is a serious person, don't you pretend to act serious always just to appear good  before him. Be your actual and normal self which will be accepted and encouraged by your partner in due course of time.
2.  Don't compare- Don't compare your partner with others. Different people have different potentials and moreover we actually do not know the scene between other couples with whom we are comparing. Those couples that we are comparing with might actually be the worst couples but they might be expressing their bonding just to get appreciated by others. So have complete trust and respect for your partner.
3. End up all fights before going to sleep- We normally don't like to end up our fights. We are always in a mood to win over the other. But it is very effective to lead a good conjugal life, if you try ending up your fights before you go to sleep. Then you can start fresh with a new day with no offences in your heart. 
4. Don't leave the person you love- Never think or mention the word of leaving your husband or wife . This is a very bad practice. Think of the situations and reasons for which  you had loved each other.
5. Don't get crazy at the same time- during a fight, don't be crazy at the same time. When one is angry , the other should stop  and stay calm for the sake of peace.
6. Discuss your problems without argument- Every problem has a reason and way to solve. So get into a discussion  and try solving the problem without just going on arguing and blaming each other.
7. Give a break in  between fights- When both the partners have fought for quite a long time, then go for a break and give a calmness to the situation or else situations can get worst.
8. Don't bring old incidents during arguments- Never mention old bad situations again and again to threaten or insult your partner. This is one of the most wrong thing that we all try to do when we fight.
9. Use texts to resolve issues- If your ego is too much that you cannot say a sorry. Then go for a wassup message or text or even email. Express your heart through a elaborate message and explain your mental status with your partner. 
10. Give new surprises to your relationship- Every relationship needs freshness. So try to introduce some new ideas to freshen up your relationship . This could mean a vacation, a party, a pet, creativity, planning a baby or whatever that will bring a positive change to your mutual life.