Most of us don't understand the obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse being conducted upon a women till the time that the abuse gets get converted into extreme for a woman.

There are different types of Abusive Behaviors, but mostly covers these two i.e. Mental or Physical.  Most of us dont understand because we take all these very easily and casually. And till time we understand , that behavior becomes something which we are not unable to live with.

Mental abuse involves a person’s attempts to make afraid, frighten, control, or even isolate you. The abuser could be your spouse, partner, business partner or family members etc. No matter who it is, you don’t deserve it and it’s not your fault. 

All the attempts of neglecting, criticizing, yelling, public embarrassment, insulting, controling, accusing, blaming, denying and putting down your interest and always over- powering in everything you does…these all are the symptoms of Mental Harassment/ Abuses.

These all works as a slow poison for any person who is getting abused by someone else. Slowly slowly the victim stats getting confused and inferior about everything what he/ she does.

Even the worse,  victim starts doubting himself/ herself and all the time he starts getting scared about every single thing.

Now,

Physical abuse/ assault / violence relates to the intentional act which cause injury and trauma to victim by way of physical /bodily contact. It may also include sexual abuse.  

The physical abuse generally relates to the physical threats, fighting, beating, misbehaving in physical terms, slapping, hitting and causing severe injury on the body of the victim etc.

Sometimes the physical abuse becomes so major, that it cause severe injury to the victim or even causes death of victim. Sometimes the victim gets suicidal tendencies because of this and this also can leads to his / her death.

Regardless of whether it is physical, mental or takes some other form, abuse often follows an escalating pattern in which the controlling behaviors worsen over time.

So the people who thinks they they will get rid of it over the time naturally, this is their stupidity. So instead of tolerating such partner or anyone it is very important to nip/ destroy it in the early stage. Dont allow such a behavior  to flourish.

Because any kind of abuse …is A CYCLE…….which will be get continued …ON AND ON…….if you allow it to happen.