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My Primary Caregiver

Published Apr 23, 2021
2 mins read
488 words

I consider my mom as my primary caregiver, mentor and motivator. With the cutting of the umbilical cord and detachment of placenta, physical attachment to our mothers ends and emotional and psychological attachment begins.The most basic biological systems depend on social stimulation early in life, Without it, children lack the foundation to deal with everyday life, let alone trauma and stress.

 

Research has shown that the brain waves of mothers and their babies are connected, working as a ‘mega network’ when they interact. 

 

A mother is not a person to learn on, but a person to make learning unnecessary. Every Mother always makes sure that their children are safe and happy throughout their childhood. She is the only person who has no demands except our best future. We as a child always take our mother for granted but without her our life becomes worthless. She is a best friend of her child who Instantly forms a special bond with the child just after his birth.

 

I may have a "SECURE ATTACHMENT STYLE" with my mom. secure attachment bond that meets a need of mine for security,calm and understanding allows for optimal development of my mind.

 

A great mentor is one who always teaches you Ethics. Supports and guides her children to achieve all the success in life. A mentor not only supports you but also became strict with you when required. And we all can see these characteristics in our mother.

 

Whenever i get sick or ill, its my mom who takes care of mine and without concerning about her health. She is a superwomen who can manage both household work and her responsibilities towards her child. I have always seen my mom hard working for me and my family no matter if it is good or bad time.I feel very sad when I hear that someone has lost their mom as they are not able to get their mother's love.

 

Some level of attachment is healthy and normal in relationships.Understanding aspects of being emotionally attached to someone is important because it influences how a relationship exists in many cases.You Choose to Love Your Friends/Peers According to Your Attachment Style.Being aware of what your attachment style is may help you not only have a better understanding of the way you react and respond to others, but it may give you a comprehensive look into your loved ones’ attachment styles too.

 

Mother always understood our problems even if we are not sharing with her. She boosts the confidence in us to overcome the problem. She always stands with us during happiness or sadness.

 

Her Love and care for her child certainly cannot be compared with anything. When I was afraid of the dark she would become my light and guide me in that darkness.She fills the gap in life and without her life seems meaningless.

Thanks for her existence..❣️

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