We all heard about attachments from our friends which are in relationship but what it feels like to being attached with someone and after getting detached from themโฆ.
When we feel attached to someone we feel like our life depends on them, our feelings plays an important role to get attached with someone. They become most important person of our life, we feel like we can't live without them. From sharing your feelings to sharing your tears make you trust them, from being in happiness with you to being in sorrow with you makes you get attached to them, from friends to partners both become an important chapter of each other's life. Attachment always feels like to have them near you, wanted to love them and wanted to spend time with them. everything feels like a fairytale and full of happiness.
But what happens when they leave us? We became lonely, because we lose the person which was an important chapter of our life, after getting detached with them either we have to torn out that important chapter or keep it with ourselves and never look at that chapter again. We start to lose our self. Life becomes like a puzzle where we don't know what to do but still we move on. Suddenly getting detached with person makes us feels like our life comes on path where we can't spend our single day without them.
Life is all about ups and downs if we're happy today then maybe another day will bring storm to our life. This is also a phase of our life soon and we also learn from this phase. Trees also shed their leaves but they stand strong with a hope to get happiness again. You will also get a person who will make you feel loved, make you feel wanted.
Being attached to someone is love, but being detached by yourself is not worth. Life is alluring just because you chose a wrong person doesn't mean your doesn't have a hope. There is always a sun after rain and also a hope for love after pain.
Moving on is difficult but remember your life doesn't wait for you, you have to live your life with full of joy. Happiness always comes in an unexpected way. Maybe you're just inch away from your happiness and you're ignoring it because of that one reason.