Published Nov 7, 2022
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Mother Has Not Lived Her Life But Has Lived Yours Life.

Published Nov 7, 2022
3 mins read
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If Papa comes to Hyderabad with me, then from next time I will not come here, Aarushi said angrily to her mother. When I can come here alone from Bangalore, I cannot go to Hyderabad from here? Mother smiled.. This type of quarrel goes on between father and daughter. Don't smile... it's all because of you! because of me? Yes.. because of you. In fact, you have lived your father's life, not yours.
Mother Mithali's face dropped. It felt like someone put his hand on the sore. Aarushi was telling the truth... She had given up all her desires for happiness because her husband was stubborn. It was difficult to remove what entered his mind.

To avoid fights, quarrels in front of the children, listened to the words of the husband.

He was treating the children in the same way. He probably feels that he has a lot of love for children, wife. But this love is becoming a bond and chain for someone. Being a wife, Mithali listened. Today's educated, self-sufficient children want space. I do not like to interfere in everything. It has been 3 years since Aarushi got married. Have not yet attained the happiness of motherhood. Lives with husband in Bangalore. Comes alone on tour for meetings etc. This time it was decided to go ahead with the parents. The father does not want to send him alone and go with him. Aarushi is angry on this matter. "Mother has not lived your life.. I can't live, Papa." Aarushi said. my life ?? Yes... Your... Tell me on which subject he took his own decision? You also change his decision. Don't wear that, don't eat this, don't go here or there, go red, not yellow, sit like this, get up like this, speak like this, sneeze like that, what have you left, Papa, tell me?
But for me and brother, going against you, mother sent us to study outside, let us become self-reliant, we made a new identity. Brother was able to go abroad. Then got married. For this, I pay my utmost respect to the mother. "I didn't want you to live life like mine. Don't be so dependent on your husband that you can't take any decision on your own," said Mithali.

"You keep giving me instructions too... I am not a child. You are saying it has been 3 years since we got married. Why don't you think of raising a family? When did you let me grow up? You give instructions over the phone too. I live.
It is my responsibility how do I reach my meeting place safely, attend the meeting and return to my home safely. Where will you go with me Papa? If you stay with me, I will be dependent on you. That's what I don't want." Aarushi left the room. Living life! I didn't think so! Do I interfere in your decision? Ask Mithali softly.

Yes very much... never interrupted...? when do you listen Even if you leave without getting your wish, Mithali said with displeasure. Staying silent for a few moments, Satyendra took Mithali's hands in his hands and said, "Now this will not happen. Everyone has the right to live the life of their choice. You too." Take out mobile to cancel your ticket. Too much love of parents, interference, counselling...sometimes it becomes a hindrance in the progress of the children. Give them an open sky to live too. Give them wings to fulfill their dreams... or else children will go on complaining that they could not progress in life because of their parents. His dreams faded. But yes do guide them.

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