Published Nov 20, 2021
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How To Handle People Who Hurt You?

Published Nov 20, 2021
3 mins read
551 words

Welcome back guys to my blog! As you have seen today's topic above. So ya ..Let's Start..

As You heard or saw something, you listened to someone's talk which is giving you comfort, you liked it. At that time you should not enjoy it, you should not be happy because of it, because it is temporary. Temporary things will go away. So the clarity that has come on a temporary basis at that time, your mind has become calm for some time. Use that time to do something like that when there will be a big problem in reality which is about to come, this is called life.

Sometimes big problems will come and plus small problems will come everyday.

For example, you have spoken to your relative, they have said or done something, any of these laws have said or done something. That thing is going on in my mind. All these things are small.

So what do you do now? You write what are the things that are your weakness and how can I convert them into strengths? 

If someone says something and it makes you feel bad. So what can happen, that before I talk to them, I should prepare in my mind that they are going to say something like this. And as soon as he or she speaks and I start laughing inside. Can't laugh from outside or else they will say what are you crazy? why are you laughing?

Because the nature of them will not change, they will do the same, they will not walk according to you. So if we are facing problem because of them it means deficiency is inside us.

So we have to fix ourselves from within, that is, we have to strengthen ourselves so much that whatever happens. We don't care. Yes, even if you have to fight with someone, then you can also fight.

Now you are ready to fight but peacefully. Because if they made you angry and you're fighting. That is basically a reaction. 

You will get trapped in it because some wrong thing will come out of your mouth, then after that the whole life will be regret. Now if you have planned this fight. And you have also discussed your husband/boyfriend before fighting. So they will also say yes, it doesn't matter, go fight.

So you have got full support from there also plus you are also clear in your mind that I have to say these things. Now you are prepared that I have to speak in this manner and if they say this to me from the front, then I have to say this.

 So basically what is happening? You are working out a solution to a problem, when your mind is ready to find the solution. Whatever problem is going to happen in the coming time, whatever level it is going to be, its solution has already been taken out. That what will go from bad to bad. I am ready for it. 

Whatever the problem will come I will face it I am ready.

Be like this there will be no problem, actually solution come to that problem. 

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