Today many thoughts are coming in my mind, I am not able to understand how to start, so first of all, let me tell you what this idea is about  So the topic is marriage which is considered an essential task in Indian society. And if it is about a girl, then not marrying is same Like not having a government job for a man.My problem is also related to marriage, why is marriage important? So Beigning my research with my socity womens whenever i makes hills of question that why marrying for a girl is nessasery they always give a very illogical answer that " beta smaaj baate bnane lagta hai" ( socity makes tounts ) but when i can't digest this answer then i make argument that" ham smaaj ke liee jeete hai ya apne liee" (we live for socity or for ourselve?) .but you know our indian womens are not less then anyone in argument .so now they has one more illogical answer " beta ek larki ke liee akele jeevan gujaarna bahut mushkil hota hai" (life of a single women is very difficult) .So comming at this i can conclude that marrige is very very important, but just for girl!! why?? Answers are given by my society auntys. I don't have much courage to talk to my father but whenever a discussion  starts then i starts  talking about dependency of girls on their husbands after marriage  they can not  do any thing without there husbands permission.  then my father says 'I have educated enough to my daughers that they do not have to be dependent on their husbands'. So It is great ,i was also talking about the same that we are able enough to live our life , there is no need of Marriage .but after saying this my father become voilent and our disscussion stops at here. But my question is still unanswered why Marriage is important ? And moreover why only for girls? . Well after too much introspection i came at the conclusion that it is not fault of parents of a girl . so the question is same who's fault is this ? I got the the answer but the answer shows the true reallity of our indian socity .The truth with which I came face to face is so terrifying that I have lost my faith in this society itself. There has always been male dominance in the country, since then even this society was not there, and to be honest, it is still there. And males are also the one who made our society, in which they made all the customs and laws so that their superiority remains, and the laws of a sacred relationship like marriage are also made by this male society.Today, if a father goes for the marriage of his daughter, then the groom side first or foremost asks that "shreemaan Aap ka sankalp toh  btaie", that is, how much dowry will be given. Its too much ,i only want to say them that "are you going to get married or are collecting donations for the Bhandara" thats why you are asking like beggars? .  Boy's can not give even respect to that girl, but while asking for dowry, their mouths open so big that a crocodile can be swallowed up. this male dominated society do not  limits it, even after giving everything, because brides father is unable to complete their  aspires of  sports car,  Even if he could not buy such an expensive car with his lifetime earnings. A father give his daughter, give money(dowry),Give expensive clothes, gold rings, chains etc, to all the family members of  groom according to their choice, but even Despite all this, the headlines of the newspaper are full of news of 'burning the daughter-in-law because of giving less dowry .  After all, why only one girl should bear all this? And why she give up her family? . It is derogatory for boys to live in their in-laws' house, but it is derogatory for a girl to stay at her father's house even after marriage .What kind of society is this ours which understands that parents need their son and daughter-in-law in old age ,But does not understand that the girl's parents may also need their daughter and son-in-law in old age . I am really very confused with these kind  of discriminative rules of our society,  why they are are not apposed by anyone? Why we are not able to understand that we have created this society and it is our job to improve it. the answer was not found, but the truth of this dirty society was definitely known.