All of us are now mature enough to understand how a bullied childhood affects the whole life of someone. A person who was bullied for anything in school, college, or in society feels differently their whole life.

This blog, I am writing to highlight the seriousness of bullying or what it takes someone to come out from the trauma of bullied childhood.

Someone who was bullied for being poor among the students was never able to speak or feel confident among rich people or people who have high standards.

Someone who was bullied for being too fat was never able to look in the mirror and say or feel the beauty that they have had inside but because everyone just noticed the physical look they also believed that this is what makes them beautiful. So, never felt beautiful.

Someone who was bullied for being too skinny was never able to feel confident of their own self because they felt they are not strong enough to do anything

Someone who was bullied for being feminine was never able to speak to anyone or participate in anything because he always thought that people will stare at him and must be thinking that how feminine he is

Someone who was bullied for not having good fashion choices or dressing sense was never able to feel confident of what they wear or never thought they are looking good in the dress because they have always been told that their dressing sense or choice of fashion is not good

At the same time some people came out of all these traumas and healed and accepted themself and moved on with their life and lead a happy life but what do you think was that easy or what and how much time it took them to heal?

How much time it took them to accept that yes they are different and there is no harm in being different. The time and the happiness it cost them and just to accept this fact and be okay with their own self has cost them the beautiful time of their life which they would have spent smiling or enjoying but it all was wasted or spent in accepting themself because some so-called perfect people passed their judgement or opinions about how someone should be. 

Everyone, please be careful of the comments you pass on to someone because it might cause pain you can not even imagine.