“You are not what she sees in you”

“She is what she sees in you”
 

“He is not what you see in him”

“You are what you see in him”
 

Every person you meet in life, is your mirror and reflects a piece of you.

All that you meet in everyone whole of your life, is you.

The perceptions, judgements, assumptions, conclusions, misunderstandings, etc that you have about the other individual, is nothing but a reflection of your inherent nature.

When I was sharing room in PG few years ago, one night I had turned the lights off as everyone was asleep.  Next morning a lady came up to me complaining that I had intentionally turned the lights off in spite of knowing that she was awake.  And then she vacated the place by taking it personally, unable to forgive.  I sat with another woman discussing the misunderstanding who then explained to me that what this first lady saw in me, was her own nature.  The lady who left the place, was unaware at the moment when she projected onto me.

It's possible that the person might have done the same thing to someone else in the past, it comes out as a projection in the present but the person can’t realise this fact at the time of projecting it.

Do you see how the mind works ?

In the past I used to worry about being misunderstood by many.  But not after knowing the concept of “Projection’, I set myself free.  I also practised dissolving my projections about others.

Yes, the good you admire and the bad you dislike in others, exists in you.

It is natural for everyone to project.  Projections happen all the time in all of the situations.  When you think of what the other person might think of you, that is a projection too.

Q:  How to treat others ?  

A:  There are no others

-Ramana Maharshi

We must learn not to judge self or others, but love self and others, instead.💚💜

Observe the chemical reactions that happen within, when you see your enemy, they are mere projections and you don’t really know what the other person is.

Can you dissolve, release projections and save your peace of mind ?

Can you quickly forgive, as the reaction or drama that follows, is unnecessary ?

Most of the polar opposite zodiac signs fail to understand each other and they fall in the trap of projection that leads to misunderstandings.

Reflection based healing:

When you realise you are projecting, take a moment to acknowledge and accept it.  It’s an act of Self Love.💚💜

Projection based healing:

Alternately, you may want to love and bless the projection you see in others.  It helps in inner healing.💚💜

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