hello people !!! hope you all doing good . people say being in a relationship and breaking up gives so much pain that one can't tolerate . But you know what hurts the most , acting like strangers with the person , with whom we were close before . imagine when your best friend ignores you and treats like you two were never met ,but you guys were once had a strong bond , that you thought it will not break never . it hurts right ? sure it is more than break up pain . so let's get brief into it .
In the journey of people we see lots of people pass through our lives . we get many friends in our different phase of life . School , college , work place , even online friends . With some of them , we will be so bonded , we may be related to them with the way they speak , a way they behave to us , anything that could have attracted us towards them , but sometimes they won't feel the same about us and that's were the problem starts .
We may be friends with them for years and suddenly they leave us for no reasons . so , what is the reason behind it . it can be anything . they will say lame reasons that we cannot accept it . the only reason is they just don't want to be with us that makes them all that drama to hurt us . but why we feel bad about it , because we loved them with all our heart , we thought that they are meant to be with us , we just got so into that friendship that we can't really believe that they are not with us .
we may cry , feel hurt , feel depressed , get irritated towards our other friends and the world may look so different without them . after all that thing , we should , we must do one thing , that is letting them go . if we do that , if we try to move on , i am sure we will be successful in our lives . Because we can't just waste our life by worrying and feeling , after all they didn't feel it and they don't deserve us . we cannot force anyone to be with us , the more we hold onto them , the more they try to leave . so instead , we let them go and cherish the memories we had with them . it will hurt , but you will get used to that feeling and accept the pain . we have this one life , and sure the right people will show up and lighten our lives . until then just remember that you will be loved .
thanks for reading guys ! ๐