I hope you all you are doing well this pandemic!!

This is my first blog and I would like share personal anecdote about failures and how you can manage with the situations? 

Each one of us want to rise above. During our life journey, someday, everybody stuck on something or someone and we do not want to move forward as we are terrified of failures, no one wants to fail. It doesn't mean to fail at competing with others. It is a feeling of fear someone's judgement, disappointment and expectations.

Whenever we fail, these things run in our mind: I'm a loser, I don't deserve anything, what people will think of us? We all are afraid of failing hence we find an excuse to back out, uncertain about change, thinking of non-acceptance. Everybody wants to be special. 

Here are the easy ways you can deal with it:

Prepare your mind that rejections are normal. It is our mind which makes it worse. If we think of lacking behind every time, we cannot forge ahead. Never look for safer options at any moment, always try to hustle. 

Take new challenges, concentrate on learning instead thinking about winning or losing. Oftentimes, we look advance to win in any situation. We upheld ourselves bustle to triumph that we do not recall the process of learning. When our entire focus is on learning, we understand things and situation more effectively. Gradually, it helps us to find resolution in any circumstances. Taking new challenges implies new environment, meeting new people to gain more knowledge as word new is affirmative. 

Ponder your deficiency and take ownership. One should always look for the reason of failure. It will make you understand what went wrong in the process of doing things. Introspection is the key. Everyone commits mistakes, instead of blaming others for failure, follow up your mistakes and ensure not to reiterate.

Persistently strive for opportunities to discover, do not hesitate to learn slowly. We often think that other person is more educated. We compare ourselves with the person who has given more duration to gain knowledge. Being sluggish is way better than not learning at all.

Alter your approach to escape falling out. Do not stick to one plan or method. You should apply these actions in your life to be positive throughout the journey.  Always remember, failure is a key to success & each mistake teaches us something. 

Do your best. Stay happy & healthy :)