We, human beings are one of the laziest & coward creature on the planet. It's just the choice of word whatever you like to choose to describe oneself. Have you ever experienced a relation where you've assumed certain things without having an actual conversation ? Well let me tell you we all have been in that position one way or other. And from here a strong question started to arise in the mind. Which is     ‘what if’? like 'What if I've clarified certain things which couldn't be true',  ' What if I've stopped certain things which was in my control', What if I've put aside my ego , anger……… There are many what if's which definitely gonna haunt and question you every moment.

Well it's not always being afraid or being lazy , 'It's a choice' and it's always been a choice, and we go for not to confront,  instead we are ready to give up on the relation we are having with that person. We are just confusing one another by not clearing up things. "Well humans are made up of mistakes". Well I made one, with one of my close friend , she was very good to me. She is my college friend we were like buddies. Sometimes we get the wrong first impression of people she was like that, when I first met her I never knew we would be such a good friend. I use to share her my thoughts, she is one of the close friend I had in college. But I don't know what happened to her. One day we were chatting over Whatsapp but she didn't seem in such a good mood, so she started to take everything in a wrong sense like I was saying something and she was getting something a kind of ‘misunderstanding’ started to develop. So I thought it's better to clear up on call but there also she didn't responded clearly. And from that day we haven't talked since, not a single message, not even a call. I started to assume certain things which surely didn't help, but made things just worse, a ‘lost of communication’. Surely she must have assumed a wrong intention of mine and didn't message either. "Well sometimes unexpected things happens from unexpected people". You guys must be thinking why I didn't message her , well the answer is maybe I couldn't find more courage to do that or maybe just afraid of  getting hurt. So yeah I made one mistake, so this story is coming from an experienced one !!!!   So long story short, try not to let your assumptions control your relation, we are human beings we have a privilege to talk so just talk it out before coming out with a conclusion. I couldn't get to do it at right time, now I am just left with a regret, question mark, guilt. It's alright I made a mistake learn from it and ……….. Well, this was my story and opinion. And today also I wonder sometimes should I ask her the reason after so long or not? Do tell.