Life has many facets . We live it by maintaining a delicate balance between the various facets it offers as part of our existence as an individual in a society. However at times it becomes difficult to maintain this balance and gets overpowered by confusion and dilemmas.

   It's not at all that you cannot be out of all this ,its all depends on you how you take them that is either positively or negatively. One way to get rid of all these confusions and circumstances is to think positively. You know our mind starts believing what we repeatedly think or say that we call a positive affirmations.

“Affirmations are like a seed planted in soil. Poor soil , poor growth. Rich soil , abundant growth. The more you choose to think thoughts that make you feel good , the quicker the affirmations work ”.by Louise Hay. 

Here are some examples:

1 I love who i am

The very first thing is to accept with gratitude the man you are , to love the way you are living your life . If you starts believing that you are not good , or smart enough then it will create a wrong perspective in your mind and you will not be able to see positive aspects of life . So stop thinking that you are not smart or enough to do something big , just be who you are and start loving yourself.

Believe this it will work.

2  I respect myself. Obviously you must have some respect for yourself . Respect is one of the greatest expression of life. Self respecting man accepts responsibilities for one's own life. When you start respecting yourself you build up confidence, this will enhance your personality. You will start feeling more courageous. You will soon realizing your abilities and disabilities. For gaining self respect you have to accept who you are and live with that.

3. I am unique 

Each of us are different. One may be good at painting and the other at writing or someone may be good at both the arts. Almighty has made each of us different and embed us with some special abilities and arts which obviously will be different or similar from others.  You  should respect this and try to enhance that bring out the best from it . You have to realise that you are unique from others. 

4. Challenges are opportunities

Challenges are nothing but opportunities. They came in our life to test ourselves, to judge our capabilities and to make us better. They should be seen with a positive aspect . Challenges reveal how much we are passionate about our dreams and how far and to what extent we can go for our dreams. So there is no need to worry about the challenge. If you think your dreams are far more important then these challenges definitely not matter for you at all. Just think how you would be feeling the moment when you would  reach your goal or dream and then everything will be very easy for you .