Things takes time to be done, we need to make sure we are giving it time it needs.
Whenever you are in dilemma about something don't ask for someone to take you out of it, do it yourself. I am asking you to do it yourself because I have been in so many situations where I have ask someone else for the solution and it had worked a few times but I never got out of that situation completely. Sometimes I think I would have done this or that, instead of listening to someone else, but now there is no chance to change the things that had done. I have done so many things even when my instincts telling me not to do, just with the thoughts of others and I regret for those decisions I made putting others on priority. I believe, there must be so many people out there who are regretting for the past decisions but now there is no way you can undone them, you can try to change them but it's impossible to undone them. Try not to repeat such a behavior you are regretting for now.
The old me used to please others and the new me leave them whatever they are with. It is not like I don't care, I care alot but I have stopped hurting myself for there deeds. Life becomes easy when you learn to let go, holding up needs patience which eventually makes you weak if you hold on for long time. I suggest, hold on only if you are confident enough or strong enough to face the outcomes. And don't ever oversight other thing just because you are holding up on something, give it a chance, might be you no longer need to hold on. I am so done blaming others cause I have realized that no one has forced me for the things I have done. It's me who chose the things they wanted me to do. I would have resisted that time only. Now it's worthless suffering for those choices.
I have decided to do things for myself, cause I can see how painful it could be when you let others to make your choices. Even if nothing happens according to plan, atleast we would have know it if we have a plan. So, let us make a plan to see if it works. If it doesn't work we will make another plan😉.
