Words are the effective way of communication. It is the medium for every type of communication.
In past years Letters were the only way for communication. Letters were consist of the written words that a person wanted to spoke, but just because of the long distance the words and feelings were encapsulated in a letter. We studied letter writing in our school, but I have never ever written a letter to anyone because till then there was telephone at home for communication. After telephones, we have mobile phones, which we can take along with us anywhere. Telephones and mobile phones are for instant voice communication.
Nowdays android phones have introduced a new way of communication, that is chatting. We can write instant massages to each other. I feel chatting is like small instant letters with short massages. Chatting is another way to interact with each other. Most of the time when we can't or don't talk to a person we simply start to chat with him or her.
Few days ago I was chatting with one of my friend, we were talking about his colleague who used to talk to him for his work to be done by my friend. Suddenly my friend said, βyou also talk to me when your bored.β I got angree, because I don't talk to anyone just for entertainment. Later on my friend cleared that he was just kidding. But even then I kept thinking what made him to think like that. Did I said something that lead him to conceive that I talk to people when I get bored. Then I realised may be sometimes massages are unable to send our feelings behind the words.
I figured out someone can easily fake emotions with the massage. It is upto the person who is reading the massages and our bonding with her or him. Sometimes words can not be sufficient to explain how we feel. Feelings can be described using words but cannot be perfectly expressed using words. One can easily fool someone by faking feelings cause we can not decipher the exact feelings behind the words.
People are being excellent at faking things, we cannot say what is real and whats fake. Sometimes communicating face to face makes us awkward, so conversation over chatting is best way to overcome this problem. Even though according to me chatting is not the way for real communication. Chatting is just reading the messages and feeling the scenario the way we want. This can mislead the conversation. Chatting might feels comfortable but it will not carry you to true feelings.
I hope everyone understood what I wanted to tell.