Published Aug 8, 2021
2 mins read
410 words
This blog has been marked as read.
Read more
Life Hacks
Others
Self Improvement

It Has Always Been About You

Published Aug 8, 2021
2 mins read
410 words

Hey all, 

Today this blog will be all about oneself. Yes, it’s about us. Us because I recently recognized the value of self-satisfaction, self-awareness, self-approval and most importantly it is all about you. I’m saying all this because I now understand that there is nothing wrong with being selfish because today even the closest person to you can’t see you more popular than himself\herself. And this is the reason why you and everybody today needs to think about themselves above all things and actually, there is no harm in it, until and unless this thing doesn’t cross its limits, because, I believe everything is legal and right until the moment it’s in a limit and is in your control. Everything that crosses its boundaries and starts being unconditional is wrong. 

So, if we talk more about self-satisfaction and self-approval to me, it means my inner peace and sanity which I can earn only by myself and nobody can earn it for me or even destroy it for me. It’s all about me being satisfied with my dress, my hairstyle, my body, my weight, my colour, my skin and everything. When this all belongs to me then how can I give anyone else the right to comment on it or destroy my satisfaction just because they feel like something else? No. never ever give that right to anyone. Always stay like you are today. Of course change with time and stay updated but do everything that makes you happy and doesn’t ever let that self-satisfaction leave you even for a second. Be confident as everybody can’t be the same. Be proud of your different and unique self. Don’t ever forget that you are the sole person in this world with such kind of hair, personality, shape, weight, colour and every single trait of yours is quirky. You may find one trait of yours in one person and one in another but nobody can’t be the exact same as you are and that’s actually the element making you different every day. You don’t need anyone’s approval. And even if you require it then first of all you, yourself have to approve yourself and then hope for anybody else to approve you. In any case, your approval is the most important and the most necessary one too. 

Ergo, don’t ever forget to approve and accept yourself. 

Thank you. 

15
5
_selenophile_ 8/8/21, 2:47 PM
1
Well said..I just did something that I should be proud of. But instead I was thinking like "what if I did the wrong thing?". This really made my day.. Thank you so much❤❤ Kindly read mine as well
1
newly_risen_sun 8/9/21, 1:52 PM
1
It was a great blog 🙌. Greatly written ✌️.
1
diyajain 8/30/21, 8:11 AM
1
❤💯
1
pooja.jain01 8/30/21, 8:47 AM
1
Informational
1
arfa 7/23/23, 9:22 AM
Nice

Candlemonk | Earn By Blogging | The Bloggers Social Network | Gamified Blogging Platform

Candlemonk is a reward-driven, gamified writing and blogging platform. Blog your ideas, thoughts, knowledge and stories. Candlemonk takes your words to a bigger audience around the globe, builds a follower base for you and aids in getting the recognition and appreciation you deserve. Monetize your words and earn from your passion to write.