What is self confidence? It is the trust we have in ourselves. Self confidence is not only a word, but it is a power that make a person determined. In this large world with peoples of different qualities, if you want to lift your head up you should be a self confident person. There are many people who has different ideas in there mind but due to lack of confidence, they will no come in front of the row to perform their parts in the society. We can see many introvert people who always keeps distance from a group of people. This makes them alone in their life. This were all happening due to lack of self confidence.
Self confidence is the key to unlock many opportunities in our life. Being a self confident person we can achieve our goals with self esteem and self respect. A self confident person is always visible as a unique person to the audience. They will get many opportunities than others. A self confident person always have positive views on themselves. They didn't give up something easily without facing it. They will more realistic persons. They neglect silly doubts. A person who is self confident can known their strength, weakness, opportunities in their life. They have well view on their capabilities and skills. They always face problems that come against their way to success. They will always be careful , not over confident.
Lack of self confidence can do nothing in your life rather than a negative effect. One of the major cause of lack of self confidence is improper way of educating. Many people did not get much chance to show their skills from the beginning of their life. This gradually makes them step back from the success. They will always be sensitive to sillier things. Lack of confidence will always makes you feel self doubt. And it makes always you to question or doubt yourselves about your capabilities. People with low self confidence often have mistakes in their thinking, it will gradually affect their career too.
To increase your self confidence you should first recognize your strengths and weaknesses. You should never dwell on your failure. Always treat yourselves with kindness. Being self confident didn't means to say yes to unreasonable requests. You should always learn to say no to unreasonable things. You should express your thoughts, feelings, emotions directly. Be a realistic person. Always accept the situations wholeheartedly . There is no need to be perfect until no one is perfect. Try to improve yourselves everyday. Start your life with positive thoughts and neglect negative thoughts and negative persons.
Keep moving with a smile, that makes you confident. Being confident can make you being Unique.
Thankyou.