Yesterday I wrote about how life teaches us so many important lessons in the way of ups and downs in our life. Today I am going to continue it with some more points.
4) Luck is something very important: I know most of you would disagree to this. I know to succeed in life hard work is required but trust me a pinch of luck is required too. Not every one clears their exam in one attempt only. This doesn't mean they didn't work hard. Not everyone who goes to Mumbai to be star becomes one. We only know the story and struggles of the actors who became famous but there would be hundreds of people much more talented, much more diligent and yet struggling. So work hard but remember luck is important too. Be prepared with your hard work that when your luck shines you will have so much to offer.
5) Own your mistakes: Nobody is perfect. Owning to what you did wrong will clear your mind that what you did wrong you will not be repeating it because you know the repercussions. Being ignorant would take you no where in life. I have seen many people saying they don't like apologizing and it is what it is. This is the most toxic behavior one can entail. This hinders mental growth. A person can turn out to be the most self obssessed and narcissistic one. This ultimately leads to loneliness. Thankyou and sorry are some basic mannerly words which makes lives easy.
3) Treat yourself as a priority: People will come and will promise you the world and one day they will leave. No matter how special or how important they made you feel today understand that they will eventually leave. So love yourself the most. Yes it will hurt bad and it will literally kill you but life doesn't stop for anyone. Make the most of it because one day even you'll leave. The people who love you today cherish every moment with them. And if you feel that they are disturbing your mental health then stay away. But do it today only. Those people may be good for others. Feelings change it is a fact. The names that hurt you today maybe won't matter to you after a year. Trust yourself you'll make through it all. You need yourself the most.